Women like to be treated like crap

[Lonely Island]

Why is it that women like to be treated like crap?

Its like they hate it when you treat them like a queen

[Yggdrasil]

come again?

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[vashti]

Whoa, that's news to me!

I don't care to be treated like a queen, but I certainly don't want to be treated like crap.

Have you ever considered a healthy balance?

[Aeradalia]

Why is it that women like to be treated like crap?

Its like they hate it when you treat them like a queen

What's your definition of a "woman" and where can I find such a creature that would prefer pain over pleasure, when all other animals have the instinct to seek pleasure and fear pain?

Review over your methods and I'll think you'll find that it's not nearly so black and white as you make it seem.

[Ferrari99]

Its true I agree. If the women thinks like she cant have you and you dont have interest in her she tends to go after you more since its a challenge. If you are too soft and to nice they think you are some kind of boring little boy who will never have any excitement. Girls like to live on the edge just as much as guys. The only difference is we love to drive and they love to just sit and look pretty.

[Gigabitch]

Only broken girls like to be treated like crap. I've never been able to put up with it, myself.

[doppelgaenger]

Shows 'em who's boss

[ecojeanne]

it's true some girls enjoy being treated like crap, maybe it's coz they think they can fix the guy or it's all they have ever known, who knows for sure, each case is different

[Mish]

Why is it that women like to be treated like crap?

Its like they hate it when you treat them like a queen

Are you talking about generally being treated like crap or the dynamics of dating? Please clarify

Because if it's dynamics of dating I can relate to couple of things. For example when you try to make yourself less available and restrain from giving compliments it's sometimes more effective than if you generally wish well to some women. I don't know why that is. I think that some women prefer the mystery and the challenge to knowing that they made a "catch". Once they have a catch it suddenly becomes boring and they lose interest. Keeping yourself "uncaught" just to keep the woman entertained and pique her interest can sometimes seem like a cruel game. I don't know why some women devalue men so quickly if they can be caught too easily. To me it seems like tactics to catch an abuser.

[m0viejunkie]

Women initially like being treated like crap, whether they know it or not. These are the type of women that love the thrill of a chase at first, and by a guy treating her badly, she thinks that he is not as interested, and it makes it more exciting, I guess. Most women don't want to be hit on by a clingy-type guy, and therefore the a**hole type, who is distant, seems more attractive.

But I'm not talking about boyfriends at all. I've never known a woman with a bf who was a jerk and she liked it.

[ecojeanne]

does it all come down to biology...maybe we all are set up to look for a man who is perceived to be the strongest and becomes the most appealing and is therefore most appealing to all women (he therefore knows this and becomes a dick) and we women biologically can’t help ourselves and then compete to get him?

that's cuuurrraaazy talk....isn’t it?!?? yes no maybe?

[Mish]

does it all come down to biology...maybe we all are set up to look for a man who is perceived to be the strongest and becomes the most appealing and is therefore most appealing to all women (he therefore knows this and becomes a dick) and we women biologically can’t help ourselves and then compete to get him?

It can sometimes be unnerving as it makes you always question, "Am I being too nice?", "Am I being too available?", "Am I being too accommodating?", "Should I slow down and ignore her for awhile since she seems to like that?". I've noticed quite a few women escalate their interest when you ignore them and then regress if you give them the attention. I wish it was as simple as I like you, you like me, let's be together.

[Doc Durian]

It's the grass is greener on the other side of the fence phenomenon. Girls tend to be flighty fickle things, due to their biological makeup and thus they need the drama and the loving if they're going to be happy with just one man.

This isn't 100 percent the case, as there are exceptions to the rule and we all know at least one of them, but it's a pretty reliable stance to take when you've met/dated/gotten to know enough of the various types of women in this world as a cross section to the bigger picture.

Women find being contrary easy.

If you cook them a nice dinner out of the blue, they're over the moon. If you cook them a dozen nice dinners over the course of two weeks, they're thinking about ordering in.

If you wake up at the butt crack of dawn every day for 6 weeks and spend a pretty penny worth of top of the line razor blades shaving your face to the consistency of a baby's arse then applying the Crème brûlée of aftershaves and mildly intoxicating/enhancing designer colognes from France, Spain, or Italy...they're likely to be snog machines... until the day they tell you a sweaty, burly faced poster boy in a half torn flannel shirt and in a magazine ad is a look they'd like to see you try and they don't mind if you come in from the garage smelling like arse crack so they can go to work with facial gravel rash.

But a couple of weeks/months later... they're buying you razors, creams, and asking what's for supper.

(example)

[misombra]

i don't like to be treated like crap but i don't like a big push over, wimp either.

[ecojeanne]

lol doc the more i read your posts the more i love you! i think you just described every human on this planet. it's about a balance, if you overdo something then yea it does become a bore...i'm pretty sure men think that too. but i adore your description!