Okay... I've tried to write something perfect... just to show the way I feel, and it never comes out right... I'm just going to tell everyone this really quick, and really loud.
Dating 2 months. Best friends before dating. I said "I don't want to have sex. I when I have sex, I want it to be the best person in the world... someone I'm in love with, and it's gotta be special.
so... she says the same thing to me.
NOW.
She is very, very, very special. She is the best. I'm in love with with her.
I think I MIGHT be getting these "wait til later" things just to please me... Like she says them just to let me feel like I don't have to pressured in to doing it... get me?
I want to know what she really thinks... but I don't know how to ask without being... pressurey (uhh... yeah, pressurey)
Maybe we feel the same right now, and we'll never know because we're scared of letting the other person feel uncomfortable?
okay... like... we use to joke about "doing it", and one day she said "Lets not joke about this, because one day we might really mean it"
That's where we're at... uhhh.
How do I get to know what she wants...
I feel like I'm leaving things out... You can fill in the blanks, if you've been in this situation, I'm sure. Please help me!