Well...

[greenday456]

I'm 13, and a bit of a nerd. A popular one, but a short nerd. There's this girl I like, I've never had a girlfriends before...I'm extremely nervous. I really like her, and there's a disco on tuesday. I wanted to ask her out, but I'm unbelievably nervous. Picture the most nervous moment in your life, x10000000.
We get on really really well, she's said several times that I'm a really good friend(good or bad :S) and she feels I'm somebody she can confide in. Of course she can, I would never tell anyone. We're really good friends, and talk almost daily on facebook. We chat at break times etc. When she leaves on facebook/msn or whatever, she alwys ends with a couple of little xxx's, but I don't know if that's just me she does that to... But I have zilch knowledge with girls:
if she says no, probably everyone will know that nerd-boy got rejected.
she might not take me seriously.
she might like somebody else.

I need SERIOUS pyschological help here!!

[hoppy1214]

Is this a couples only disco? Or is it a school dance that she'll probably go with her friends too regardless of having a date. If it's a couple's dance-- try and work up the courage to ask her. If you just can't get the words out, I think a note in her locker would be fine. If it's a school dance, you don't need to ask-- just show up and ask her to dance one of the slow dances. Tell her she looks pretty, etc. She'll get the idea. Either way, don't worry about what anyone else thinks. It takes guts to ask someone out so kudos to you for trying.

[greenday456]

well it's a school dance. I don't have any real problem like TALKING to her, I mean I do a lot of that. I could easily say "you look nice in that dress"..
PROBLEM: I have no idea how to dance.

[greenday456]

moooo cow!

[Yggdrasil]

You're cute.. lol

Kiddo, you're only 13. You have your entire life ahead of you. Why the hurry? Are you afraid you may miss out on something?

I'll let you in on a little secret: your first crush rarely is your last one

Be prepared for a lot of rejection. The good news is: if you can handle the rejection, you'll come out a lot stronger.

[greenday456]

Talking to her on facebook at the moment, how do I phrase the question? I'M SOO NERVOOOUUUSSS!!!!!

[greenday456]

heeeellllp!!!!

[Doc Durian]

Talk about Leggos or Pokemon or something.