when your eyes are closed during sex...

[Juniper]

Hey this is mostly directed to the guys, but when you are having sex with your girl and you have your eyes closed, what are you thinknig about??
are you just enjoying the moment and thinknig about the feelings or do you close your eyes and think of other girls? if so then how often would u think of other girls? whether it be girls you know or just celebs porn stars etc. ?

thanks.

[fullorange]

When my eyes are closed, there are plenty of things I would be thinking about. But it is most definitely not other girls.

Here are a few things:

-Focusing on if the girl is enjoying it, and if there is anything that could be done to make it better for her, usually when we have sex I do everything I can for her pleasure.
-How much I love her
-Could be focusing on how good it feels
etc

Eyes closed usually means your thinking, but not necessarily about other people

[Kotten]

He's having very deep thoughts.


You see, it seems to generally the guy's job, to make the girl feel as good as possible and have sweet, sweet orgasms. The girl, on the other hand, is generally content to just lay back and see what the man's got to offer.

Not only is the man thinking during sex, he is multi-tasking. His neuro-net processor of a brain is pounding algorithms as fast as his penis is pounding pussy.

"Alright, time for some action"
"I hope I don't screw up this time"
"Is that the right hole?"
"Oh wait, there it is"
"All right, lets start out slow"

It isn't long before his thoughts turn into a quiet panic.

BRAIN: "Damn, she just moved."
BRAIN: "Did I do something right, or did I hurt her"
<soft moaning starts>
BRAIN: "She's making noises!"
BRAIN: "Pain noises or pleasure noises?"
BRAIN: "Let try stepping up the pace a little"
<increased moaning"
BRAIN: "More noises, I pretty sure that's pleasure now"
BRAIN: "Oh yeah, she's starting to flush, I like that"
BRAIN: "Lets try changing the angle a bit"
.............................
BRAIN: "Nope, didn't like that"
<Moans quieting>
BRAIN: "Damn, what was I doing before?"
BRAIN: "Damn it, lets try a different position"
WOMAN: "OUCH!"
BRAIN: "Yeah....that one was definitely pain>
WOMAN: "What are you doing?"
BRAIN: "Mayday! Mayday!"
BRAIN: "Decrease Velocity!"
BRAIN: "Open flaps"
BRAIN: "Landing gear engaged"
BRAIN: "Disengage primary thrusters"
BRAIN: "Systems check"
MAN: "You allright?"
WOMAN: "Uh....Yeah"
BRAIN: "No system damage"
MAN: "Allright, lets try this again"

—five minutes later....computer pretty much takes over—
BRAIN: "Allright, back on track"
<Moans increasing in volume and frequency>
BRAIN: "Target in sight, hold position"
<Full body blush commencing>
BRAIN: "C'mon.......C'mon"
<Back arching>
BRAIN: "Hold it......Hold it....."
COMPUTER: WARNING! WARNING!
COMPUTER: ERR-ERR-ERR
BRAIN: "Oh shit"
COMPUTER: SYSTEM OVERLOAD IMMINENT
BRAIN: "Oh shit, not yet!"
<Moaning above 80 decibals>
BRAIN: "Just a little longer"
COMPUTER: DANGER HULL INTEGRITY
COMPUTER: SYSTEM OVERLOAD COMMENCING
BRAIN: "****! I'm not going to make it"
BRAIN: "Pull out and prepare for manual override"
COMPUTER: SYSTEM OVERLOAD __________
BRAIN: "Pull out, pull out"
COMPUTER: AUTO PILOT ENGAGED
BRAIN: "NO! UNENGAGE! UNENGAGE!"
COMPUTER: TARGET LOCKED....TARGET LOCKED
BRAIN: "If I cum now, will it be too soon?"
BRAIN: "If I cum now, will it be too soon?"
BRAIN: "If I cum now, will it be too soon?"
COMPUTER: <Target heart rate reached>
COMPUTER: <Breathing nominal>
BRAIN: "Must....hold....on"
COMPUTER: <FEMALE ORGASM COMMENCING>
BRAIN: "can't.....hold it"
COMPUTER: <FEMALE ORGASM COMMENCING>
BRAIN: "Its out of my control, its in God's hands now"
COMPUTER: "PRIMARY VALVE: EJACULATING"
<keeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrr SPLAT!>
COMPUTER: "AUTOMATIC SYSTEM SHUT DOWN: COMMENCING"
<THUD>
WOMAN: "Honey, are you alright?"
MAN: Yeah.....my head hurts...."
WOMAN: "Sorry" <blush>
MAN: No, the other head"
WOMAN: "What?"
MAN: Nothing"
MAN: Did you cum"
WOMAN: "What, you didn't notice"
MAN: Actually, I was kinda too busy to notice"
WOMAN: "You're so weird"
MAN: You should try being the pilot next time"
WOMAN: "Get off me, I need to pee"

[akazie]

That is hilarious, Kotten. Nice post

[qwertz]

lol that is so funny!

[ed604]

When your eyes are closed, all the other senses are heightened and intensified. Soo more feeling to your penis!

[CAM]

Always thinking and I don't close my eyes unless she starts looking at me to see if I'm in the moment...then, I close the eyes as if to say, "Oh, this is soo great baby!"

Actually, I'm usually thinking about how this is going to make the whole break up very painful. Wondering if she is the type that will go ape-shit because she gave me access to the goodies or the type that will just tell me to leave. Very quickly, my brain has sized up whether this woman and I are going anywhere in a relationship but other parts of my body are very slow to catch up with the mental conclusions. Its like a report has to be physically mailed by my brain to my sexual organs stating that sex would be a mistake...and yet, the mail always gets lost in transit...arriving only moments after it is too late and the whole Process has started.

Also, I'm monitoring to see if her "pleasure" is legit or a put-on. If she opens her eyes at this point and sees me looking, there is usually the curious eyes and the question, "What?" Better not to answer, just lean down and kiss her gently. That puts her at ease that I'm not observing in a clinical manner. I'm fully aware that sometimes things clicks and sometimes things don't click...so, I'm watching to see if she's honest about it or just trying (needlessly) to make me think that she's really into the moment.

Me into it? Of course I'm not. I already told you that I know it won't last But, I do want to be the nice host and help her reach some kind of sexual plateau.

[Lonely Island]

When my eyes are closed, im thinking of the meal imma make after im done

[Junket]

I close my eyes because we're doin' doggy and if I don't stop looking at that ass I'll blow my load in seconds.

[Jovanny]

I close my eyes because we're doin' doggy and if I don't stop looking at that ass I'll blow my load in seconds.

Bingo.

I rarely close my eyes during sex because I just LOVE watching my girlfriend enjoy it. The faces she makes, the noises, the way her body squirms around as she enjoys the pleasure. I find it amazing.

But Frasbee nailed it on the head for me. I can't look at my girlfriend's ass during doggy unless we have to get it done fast.

[vashti]

OK, so I'll be the first to admit it. Sometimes, other men briefly run through my mind.

So there!

[Jovanny]

OK, so I'll be the first to admit it. Sometimes, other men briefly run through my mind.

So there!

Why exactly do other men run through your mind?

Not being rude, just being curious.