please help me what cab i do to make this better?????

[lightning88]

everytime i have sex with my gf it hurts her. she loves it when we do,she says im the best she ever had and that no guys ever been able to get her off,i do up to three times each time we have sex tho. im really big,and everytime we do the next day shes really sore,i mean can barly move sore

,i was trying not to be rough with her and last time i was very gentle and it still hurt her. the bad thing is we both still want it,today she was in really bad pain and still wanting it,but i didnt because i didnt want to hurt her worse and i think shes kind of mad at me for not doing it. and its really frustrating for both of us,i feel really bad when she can barly move. is she going to get used to my size,i mean will it stop hurting her eventually?

i feel really good during it cus i know shes really enjoying it but it sucks the next day to see her in pain and barly able to move. what can i do to make it better? im kind of lost and i feel really bad,we really love each other very much and i know it wont come between us but i dont know what to do im hoping it will stop hurting her,i really need advice please......

[Yggdrasil]

Does she complain about it?

[lightning88]

no,she compliments me and really loves it,but the next day she can barly move it hurts her so bad,she doesnt really complain but i asked her what was wrong and she told me,and it happens everytime we have sex,she still wants me even tho its hurting her,and i didnt tonight cus she was really hurt,and now i think shes a little pissed that i didnt because she wanted it,but i didnt wat to hurt her worse she was already in pain.im not sure what to do to make it better for and not be painful for her.-

[Yggdrasil]

Right.

Well.. if she doesn't complain about it, in my opinion it means that she's willing to go through some pain to have great sex with you.

You on the other hand want to be considerate, which surely speaks in your advantage.

Maybe you can explain her you care about her and empathize with her pain.

Now the good news is, eventualy her vagina will stretch.

One of the things you can do, to help her be more comfortable with your size, is:

a: use lots of lube;
b: during foreplay, start stretching her vagina already a little, by the use of your fingers. Start with say 2 fingers, then add a finger, then another one;
c: give her an occasional break while pumping. During this break, go back to part b, and massage a little.

Most important is that you both talk about this, so she understands your feelings and emotions about this to.

[lightning88]

ok we did a little while ago and we did use lube i guess il find out tomaro if it helpd and im glad to hear she wil stop hurting

[Yggdrasil]

It'll take some time btw

[Cbrider]

Get her pregnant, that will stretch it faster than anything.

[lightning88]

yeah,shes hurting less today than she normally would. and no i wont get her prego neither of us are ready for that.

[Yggdrasil]

yeah,shes hurting less today than she normally would. and no i wont get her prego neither of us are ready for that.

Smart guy about not getting her pregnant

Anyways, just keep on following my suggestion and eventualy she won't be sore anymore. She just has to stretch a little and by using the technique descibed above you make it easier for her, as you probably have noticed by now.

[Countrygirl]

Sorry to dampen on your ego about the size of your penis and that it is too big for your girlfriend LOL....but ..... No mans penis is too big for a woman - yes if it is thicker than an average size one its going to feel a little sore but if you are suggesting that the length of your penis is too much for her to cope with then I suggest she visits her GP because sex should not be painful. I have been told that my pink pocket is rather tight, but no penis I have had the pleasure of has been too long for me to handle... yes perhaps a little tight thick wise but thats all.

Perhaps your girlfriend isnt relaxed enough when you have sex - that can make it a little uncomfortable and tight, but not painful.

[lightning88]

well no,what hurts her IS both the length and width,because it hurts her if i go all the way in because i hit the end of her,maybe she isnt as deep as most girls,idk....so i been not going in all the way and its really helped. if i go in all the way it hurts her,sorry if you havnt had someone that big its not my fault,,but your wrong....... and shes getting used to the width thing we have been using lube and it helps,shes normally pretty wet anyway but she says its helping and we did twice yesterday and shes not hurting today

and i know,we want kids but not at least for a couple years till we are more ready

[Countrygirl]

Hahaha... You dont need to apologise hun for the fact that I may not have experienced a cock as big as yours. However, I think the pleasure there is all mine by the sounds of it!

Once again.... it isnt normal to be in pain whilst having sex - dont you want her to visit the doctors in case they dampen your ego too and tell you in fact she has a blockage and your penis is actually on 3 inches really!

[lightning88]

she doesnt have a blockage and we both know its way bigger than three inches thank you and shes gotten way better and it may of hurt her at first but she says im the best shes ever had soooooo bite me,lol