Not Sure What to Think

[SignsAndStars]

Alright, so Im new to this whole forum thing so be nice, ok? Ill do my best to be brief.

OK, so me and this girl I met hit it off really well at the start. Our first date lasted almost 20 hrs and our second lasted like 15 hrs lol. We really connected unlike Ive connected before and she always said she missed me a ton. She said she had really deep feelings for me and she really liked me. She would always text me and was definitely very into me.

Well it was a while till our third date and i think she was really upset over that. Well on that date she was PMSing and I was ill and we both were somewhat snippy. We fought over it a little but we made up rather easily. Everything seemed alright, but the next day she went on vacation with her family and got into a huge fight. She has since moved into her own apartment and is really depressed and misses her family.

Ever since that we've only talked a little. She said she needed space to get over this deal and to talk to her at the end of the week. So I did...and she still really didnt seem to want to talk. Her texts seemed very depressed and they were short and sporadic. I dont know what to think exactly, is she just depressed, or does she not like me anymore, so suddenly?

Could use some female help here lol. I was thinking tomorrow I might try and get out to her new appt. with flowers and suprise her, cheer her up ya know...but im not certain about this. Help please?

[Graham Berkeley]

Have you asked her whats up? Sometimes they just want to know you care enough to probe a bit. Not to much though.

[Yggdrasil]

She said she needed space to get over this deal and to talk to her at the end of the week. So I did...and she still really didnt seem to want to talk. Her texts seemed very depressed and they were short and sporadic. I dont know what to think exactly, is she just depressed, or does she not like me anymore, so suddenly?

She's still dealing with her family stuff and probably also having a hard time being independent. Give her time, be supportive.

[little pingoin]

Just bad timing, dear. Her whole world just flipped upside down. Even though you two really hit it off, you're not yet a big enough part of her life to dump her emotional baggage all over your doorstep. As emotional as she is, she's probably worried that she'll scare you off so she's keeping her distance to avoid doing that. The flowers are a nice idea, but don't stick around too long. Give her space and time to get over her family crisis.