Just finished a 3 year relationship, in pieces :(

[pill monster]

Ow do!
It's my first post and I'm kinda looking for impartial advice as friends and family aren't helping

I've just finished a 3 year relationship and now I'm super mixed up cos I miss her so so much It's making me cry typing this.

I'm 33, been married before and have a daughter from the marriage who I see weekly.

for the last couple of months of the relationship I've just come out of I'd convinced myself things were'nt right and it wasn't for me. I go clubbing regular and would always check out other girls and I can be very flirtacious. I think with feeling things were'nt right in the relationship the grass looked greener elswhere so I cinvinced myself I didn't love her.

Now I'm without her i can't stop thinking about her friends take me out and try to get me laid, but I just aint interested, family tell me to move on and have fun but I cant cos I'm so sad. I'm realising now how much we did together and how little effort I put in ( I was always grumpy) and think if i'd tried harder (as much as her) it'd woulda been amazing. we had awsome sex (when I didn't have my head up mr ars being grumpy) she would do anything for me, supported me without question and i was just a dick that didn't see a future.

Now all I think bout is how we coulda had a future. I'm just super mixed up and this whole post seems pointless. I'm just so frickin sad and lost without her

[Gigabitch]

So, are your family and friends telling you things like "You've made your bed, now lie in it"?

[Angie1802]

I you really love her, do your best to come back with her... if she loves you as you do, she will give you another chance.