It's been 14 months as of yesterday and all has been almost perfect. Although there's been no change in her demeanor, affection or anything like that...we haven't spent as much time together recently. We're suppose to talk about some things that have been bugging me...she LOVES to talk and this is the first time I've asked to talk. I know she wants to, and I already wrote most of what I had to talk about on her myspace and we briefly discussed it on the phone...but she decided to go out with her friend tonight instead of seeing me and talking. She invited me, but I didn't feel like going. She's not the type to cheat, very strong morally...but a while back her ex contacted her about hanging out and she told me so there'd be no secrets...and she admitted that he & a buddy came and sat with her sister and her at a restaurant a short time before that. She hasn't been as insistent on us spending time together as in the past, so I've gotten paranoid from just having a bad feeling. We'll be going to a wedding tomorrow so we'll be able to talk...just need some reassurance from her I guess. I'd lose faith in the human race if she turned out to not be faithful, but she calls when she gets home and we've had an honest, open relationship where we let one another "go out." She's a bit naive tho and loves to dance...she says it's no big deal if she dances with a guy as long as they don't "touch." Sure, but how many guys don't try to "touch?" She's too nice, but should I put my foot down about this...or am I being paranoid?