ok im going to start from the begining which helped cause my problem. Basically I was about to go out with a girl who liked me and I really liked her. i asked her out and invited her to the fair. we also talked online and on the phone all the time. a week before the fair she didnt call me for 2 days but i didnt think much of it. when she did contact me she told me she was goin out with another guy. i was crushed and didnt want that to happen again..............that is what caused a problem with anoter girl. a few months later i started liking a friend of mine more than a friend. i didnt want things to get akward for me when i was around her so i told her how i felt. she told me she didnt know what to think of me at that time cause we only knew eachother for one school year. we talked all the time and tried to get to know each other but soon i realised she was slowly ignoring my messages and txt and phone calls. it was mostly from having to work all the time, but up until a few days ago i didnt have a problem with it. i got mad at her cause first she invied me to go to the mall with her and she never answered a call or txt the she ignored messages i sent her on facebook asking her what happened. after two days of waiting for a reply it felt like deja vu again and sent her a message saying i was sick of her ignoring me and y would ask me to hangout if she was just going to ignore me...... now i put my self into a bad situation. i regret saaying what i did to her, and now she wont talk to me.........she sent me a reply to my message saying she was goin to tell me the next time we were goin to hangout cause her phone broke and she could get on the family computer but now she doesnt want to talk to me. i hate my self for saying what i did to her and tried to explain to her about my past experience with another girl and thought it was happening again. but she just thought i was making excuses and wanted her to feel srry for me... i care about this girl and dont know what to do. its really painful just thinking about it and i want to fix things with her. no offence but i dont want advice from a guy cause half the time it doesnt turn out good. i want advice from a girl who can help me. so plz any girl out there willing o help i thank u. most guys wont admit to it but ive been crying for a couple hours after i ruined things with her and i feel depressed and sick. dont want to feel this way any more and want her to talk to me. so plz help if u can.