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    Worried

    Ok Ive been secretly seeing this lad for a few months now. I say secret cos his parents say he isnt ready to date yet (christian kinda thing). Anyway we text and msn and I love him loads and he tells me he loves me more etc. We dont see each other much in real life cos of the situation so most of our chatting is done on msn.

    What i find wierd is that when he comes on msn, hes like delayed replying to me, I know he's talkin to other mates as well (mostly girls) but it's annoying how I can't get convos going because I try to say things and i wait 2 or 3 minutes just for a "yh" or "k". This seems to happen everytime he's on nowdays.

    Now I've asked him if he really loves me, and he says he deffo does with all his heart, but in my opinion if you're in love with someone, talking to them would come top of your list would it not? I know if im talkin to someone and my bfs window flashes I jump IMMEDIATELY to it.

    Love is blind so help me see. Am I just too clingy?
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    oh no. should I say 'he is just not that into you" ?

    It is ultimately up for you to decide. But I know that when I am in love, or when someone is in love with me, it may happen once in a while that a late reply occurs...but not very often. Because both parties tend to cling to the phone. And if you have been feeling that you are not 'getting enough' then you are probably not getting enough. It is just that simple.

    Easier said than done. I know. ....but I think you already feel it, no?

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    You sound like a clingy, insecure, 16 year old that hasn't figure anything out, yet.

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    Thanks dimwit

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    Yes, too clingy. But you knew this when you posted. What else do you want to discuss?
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    well, i wanted to discuss whether its possible for someone to be in love with you but never ever converse with you anymore when there is ample opportunity i guess.

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    Haha, yeah kind of clingy. Sounds like me at times.
    I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmyWright View Post
    well, i wanted to discuss whether its possible for someone to be in love with you but never ever converse with you anymore when there is ample opportunity i guess.
    Do you think older couples are always so thrilled to talk to each other like a newer couple?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    Do you think older couples are always so thrilled to talk to each other like a newer couple?
    Walter: You know what sex is for us. Warning this could be slightly pornographic?

    Jeff Dunham: What?

    Walter: Get! Off!
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    Walter: I found out from someone that coffee improves your sex life

    Jeff Dunham: Does it?

    Walter: No, it kept me awake through the whole damn thing!

    Walter: I know one thing though

    Jeff Dunham: What's that?

    Walter: They're never going to let us back in that Starbucks again.

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    I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.

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