Whats going on?????

[BankyTheHack]

OK, June 4th I had a date with an older woman (I'm 18, shes 23) the date went great, and we ended going back to her friends house where she was staying to fool around. That was cut short because her friends showed up, so she walked me to my car and kissed me goodnight.

The very early the day after next I get a booty call from here, so I got and pick her up and we go to a secluded area and fool around some more. Then that same evening we hung out again, but this time we just sat and talked.

I talked to her online a few times after that, but then I didnt hear from her for over a week, until I got a email from her, saying that she just got a job here, meaning she was going to stay here permanently, and that "things should work out" now that she would be working. Then like the next day she IMed me and we went and got some take out and hung out again. She mentioned that it was her birthday the coming Monday , and that she wanted to spend Sunday (4th of July) with me to celebrate, so we made plans to go out that night, but then when I talked to her early Sunday morning she said she wasnt sure if she felt up to it because she had partied pretty hard with her friends the night before and was still hungover, so I decided to be nice and just told her to rest up and we'd go out some other time. And, well that was the last time I have talked to her. Theres one particular site that we are always on, and its through that site that we do most of our communication, but the site says she hasnt signed on AT ALL since the last time we chatted. So I'm at a loss here, I have this girl whom I care about alot, but I havent talked to her in weeks now, and I dont know whether to just give up and move on, or keep holding on. I have a few other options as far as girls go right now, but frankly shes the one I want.

So what should I do?? Just give up on her completely and look elsewhere, or wait it out some more?

[MVPlaya]

Don't give your heart away, bro. While I want to give you props on getting with this girl, you should never just fall in love with a girl. Thats a fatal flaw. Give it a shot, see how far it goes, but keep your eyes open for other surprises.

[BankyTheHack]

Well I'm not in love with her, I have enough sense to hold myself back. Ok thats what I've been doing so I'll keep it up. I kinda keep her at the back of my mind, but I've been getting pretty flirty with a girl at work, as well as another girl at another store in the mall I work in.