I could use a little help

[Dazedn'Confused]

So I could use some help...

I've been talking to this girl online lately, shes a friend of a friend.

She basically has the most amazing personality ever, I mean, its just great. She is funny and smart, and loves all the loser things I love.

...

Then she showed me some pictures, and there is just absolutely NO physical attraction what so ever. I mean...it's just not there.

Now, I don't want you to view me as some kind of asshole who wants some PERFECT hot blonde thats not it AT ALL.

But you guys all know , there has to be SOME attraction physically. For me it's just not there. Now I don't know what to do...

We've been talking since june and absolutely clicked immediately, and to tell her "Oh well you're just not pretty enough so, that's it" would make me feel like the worst guy in the entire world.

Help

[bloodtippedrose]

ahhh keep her in the friend zone? maybe if you hung out in a group of friends you'd find cute things about her.

[lostinconfusion]

you should meet in person as a trial. pictures are misleading, you might find her attractive in person. but if you meet and still don't find her at all attractive, be clear about your intentions and make sure she isn't accidentally led on.

[paracelsus82]

pictures are misleading <--- agree


keep her in the friend zone? maybe if you hung out in a group of friends you'd find cute things about her. <--- give that a try, then if its just still not there, just let her know that she is an awsome chick but your just not ready to be in a relationship.