Hey guys, new to the site, figured I would give it a try and see what other people think of my story.. so here it is,

So I dated this girl all 4 years of my high school life and 1 year after words for a total of a whopping 5 years. So we break up over stupid stuff and I haven't talked to her since. Since then I have been having trouble trying to find another lady since then. It's been a good 3 or 4 years since we broke up.. I've tried dating sites okcupid, plentyoffish and paid for one called singlesnet ..and nothing! Even when I was attending college, which I finished now; I had been talking to this one girl and we talked like we liked each other and boom, she vanished from the face of the earth after we graduated. After that I've been trying dating sites, but absolutely nobody will give me the light of day. I'm beginning to think maybe it's me or the way I am? Am I destined to be alone forever?