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    How Should I feel about this?

    So I was talking with my gf and she has made out with 25 guys but has had sex with 3,me being the 3rd guy

    She has done all this list.

    guys from work.
    guys her friends liked.
    guys she just thought were hot
    guys she used just for making out when she was bored.
    guys she just wanted attention from.
    went after guys who her friends liked just cause she didnt like the match up
    A manager from her store.
    guys she worked with cause they were hot.
    One of her brothers friends cause she and he was "drunk"
    Even randomly went back to a guys house from work and randomly had sex.so kinda a one night stand I guess.
    dating guys just cause she was bored.
    Gave head to a guy who treated her like shit but had things going for himself but he "forced" her to give him head.when in truth he didnt she just did cause she "didnt" know what to do.She did so hoping he would ask her out.

    I think there is more but cant remember.


    She was one of those girls who didnt get "hot" til senior year in highschool so she felt like making up for lost time was she told me but it sounded like an excuse with how she said it.It has been 3 years since highschool

    What is your opinion on this?

    I am her current bf but finding out some of this stuff kinda bugs me even tho I care bout her.

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    Best thing to do is not to ask about a girls background.....cuz your gonna hear stuff that you are not going to like

    Let me quote Joe Budden for a second: "If a girl tells you how many guys she has slept with, automatically add 15 to it"
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lonely Island View Post
    Best thing to do is not to ask about a girls background.....cuz your gonna hear stuff that you are not going to like

    Let me quote Joe Budden for a second: "If a girl tells you how many guys she has slept with, automatically add 15 to it"
    well it just came up in conversation is all.She said she did all that stuff cause she liked the attention from guys cause she never got attention til she got hot.

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    I can understand why you are upset. No one wants to think of their significant other having sex with someone else (unless they are into that kind of thing...). The best thing you can do is try to forget about it. If you care about her, what should it matter what she has done in the past? She still deserves love and respect, no matter how many people she has been with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cewzp4 View Post
    I can understand why you are upset. No one wants to think of their significant other having sex with someone else (unless they are into that kind of thing...). The best thing you can do is try to forget about it. If you care about her, what should it matter what she has done in the past? She still deserves love and respect, no matter how many people she has been with.
    I dont really mind the fact she has been with 3 other people but the fact of how she went after some of the guys,just kinda disgust me.I try not to let it bother me but she still talked to one guy who "forced" her to give him head,they stoped talking 2 weeks ago cause he say she was a waste of his time but he was always asking for sex and her response was I wouldnt like that.It also bugs me that she talks to these guys who are always asking for sex.I know she says no but it's annoying to me cause she is friends with them and they know bout me,She doesnt like it when she hears girls do that with me.

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    Some girls are so silly. Why would she want to tell you detailed reasons why she went after those guys? My guess would be that she thinks it is sexy or wild. Haha. She has no idea that it just makes her sound slutty or stupid.

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    never mind her promiscuity - her stupidity in bragging about it is enough of a reason to reconsider dating her.

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