My boyfriend has a short fuse with me (he seems nicer to other people) and it seems he has the Dr. Jeckyll/Mr. Hyde Sydrome.
It feels like no matter what I say, he cops an attitude. I can't even ask him a question without him asking "What is there NOT to understand!!!" Or if I make a comment on something about an event that's happened he talks down to me as if my comment is offensive to him. So, ultimately, I can't be myself around him.
Also, when I'm at his house, EVERYTHING I do is wrong. Sometimes he gets upset at the smallest things - like me not putting a paper towel under my plate because it will "seep through the table cloth."
He is very meticulous about things and I have already declared to him that I AM NOT moving in with him and putting up with a lifetime of this..and it doesn't seem to phase him (even when I come out and TELL him he's wasting time by hoping I'll move in with him).
I ask him why he has to address me with his attitude and short fuse and he blames my "dumb" and "thoughtless" comments for his snippiess.
How can I deal with this guy until he realized we're not meant to be together?
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31-08-09, 06:32 AM #1
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I Can't Do ANYTHING Right!
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31-08-09, 06:53 AM #2
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If you know you aren't meant for each other, and he isn't even nice to you, why are you prolonging the inevitable?
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31-08-09, 09:04 AM #3
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exactly.. i'd dump his ass after reading my reply.
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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31-08-09, 10:05 AM #4
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Why are you still hanging around with someone that is such a moron? There are so many fish in the sea! Dump him and get on with it! He isn't worth it! Anyone who completely dominates and is critical of everything you do is called...CONTROLLING...Get away from it!
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31-08-09, 10:40 AM #5
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He thinks he all so mighty. Once you left him, he will be crawling like a maggot in the street.
Leave him, what you're feeling now is not love but a masochistic feeling.I like this
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31-08-09, 02:00 PM #6
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This is stupid.
Obviously he's being a jerk to you often, because you won't move in with him...He's constantly reminded when your around him and it makes him be a jerk. Is this an excuse? Absolutely not. It just shows what a lack of character he has.
Break up with him and move on. You don't want to be with someone who acts like a child.
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31-08-09, 08:13 PM #7
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hey, why do you even need to think twice about breaking up with him ?
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01-09-09, 07:36 PM #8
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Sounds like you were made for each other and the reason why domestic violence is a crime punishable by the man being arrested and you being the eternal victim... Originally Posted by Brooklyn Rose
I hate women like you. You give all other women a bad name.
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01-09-09, 08:50 PM #9
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Why do you have to deal with him until he realises you're not meant to be together? If you don't want to be with him, break it off yourself.How can I deal with this guy until he realized we're not meant to be together?
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02-09-09, 12:01 AM #10
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I don't want to be a "thanks" whore but everyone who posted here is on the money. Think about it.
You're one of those girls who just refuses to dump his ass so you wait for him to do the honors.
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02-09-09, 05:14 AM #11
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Kick him to the curb. Hard. You're not doing anybody any favors by taking this man's crap.
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02-09-09, 02:30 PM #12
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There will come a time where the guy's temper shortens. How old is he anyway? My dad is like that. Everyday, my mom and him argues about SIMPLE things. But until now, they're still together. My mom has patience that's why. And she married a man who's like that so she has to live with it. Things will change as time goes by don't worry. Maybe just let him be this time and let him think about his mistakes.
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I really don't understand why you came here to get an answer that you already have...
Leave him or put up with this for the rest of your life, his walking all over you and always will cause you allowed it, do it now waiting makes things harderLive your life to the fullest and let the regrets of today be lessons for tomorrow
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03-09-09, 01:09 AM #14
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I can't say anything but to agree with everyone else, the answer is pretty obvious.
If you know you aren't meant for each other, WHY are YOU waiting for HIM to break up with you? Lordy, lordy. Just ditch him already.Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi
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16-09-09, 12:54 PM #15
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Girl, leave him before he leaves you. obviously, he has lil or no respect for you to dictate your every movement. What made you two even get together?!
