I have a long term relationship, and got into an argument with my girl. She ended up going out on a B-day party and got totally drunk. I have forbidden her to drink.
Now she blames her drunk on me.
advice?
whose fault is it?
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04-09-09, 08:43 AM #1
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problem with my girl
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04-09-09, 10:27 AM #2
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Yours, clearly. She obviously can't think for herself, now can she?
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04-09-09, 11:14 AM #3
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Well she is dumb for getting that wasted but how can you forbid your GF from drinking?
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04-09-09, 02:10 PM #4
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its your fault..maybe you made her upset thats why she got herself drunk..
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04-09-09, 06:52 PM #5
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FORBIDDEN?
WTF is up with YOUR MAJESTY
You two deserve each other, as she is just as stupid in allowing you to forbid her from doing things as you are for thinking you have that kind of authority over her!
Grow and and get a new personality.... FORBID MY A**!Live your life to the fullest and let the regrets of today be lessons for tomorrow
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I meant to say it was long distance, not long term, sorry.
I have not forbidden her, I have just told her not to get drunk, but still can drink.
does it change?
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04-09-09, 11:44 PM #7
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If she wants to get drunk, it's entirely up to her. What you can do is not give her any reason to do so.
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You split your ****ing problem up into 3 threads?
I could see why your GF get pissed off.I like this
Originally Posted by Lipp
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05-09-09, 12:54 AM #9
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thats a profound problem you have there, take her to AA and help her through this rough time will you...
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05-09-09, 01:00 AM #10
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Why do you think you can put limits on what another adult can do? You are not her parent....
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05-09-09, 01:24 AM #11
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Nope don't change. You think of yourself as a man on a high horse. Let me teach you something. Originally Posted by zykcul
little boy is coloring a picture... it is a surprise for a little girl. little boy tell little girl "don't look!" little girl tackles him to the ground to look.
the lesson? reverse psychology.
you say don't do something, the person does it- with avengence!
next time she goes out I hope she drinks (as you've "let" her) then I hope she drinks more... (as you have "forbidden" her) then I hope she pancakes, takes a picture of the pancake, and the guy holding her up and texts it to you.
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