Okay, so first off I just want to point out I am in high school and if you don't want to give advice about relationships relating to that, don't.
Okay so here's the situation, the year 10 formal (or 'prom' for you americans) is coming up in the next couple of months and there is a girl at my school that I have been talking to quite a lot lately, albeit quite flirty too, and I have been consdering just asking her out as well a to the formal.
I have a male friend (i'm not best mates with him, but I do talk to him at least once a day) that is also friends with this girl and talks to her a alot as well.
A couple days ago, he asked her out to the formal but stating something along the lines of "you're my last resort, I have no one else to go with" and my female friend was absolutely devastated after this and was on the verge of tears etc. and then he apologised. The next day she heard a rumour (that was true) that he was bragging/talking about this. And now, she has told me she is definetly not going to go to formal with him from that.
Ok now I've got that out of the way I want to add that I talk to this girl quite alot, as well in a flirty sense, but I am not sure if I am in 'the friend zone' or not. I guess this friend zone isn't that much of an issue in asking her out, but it still sort of is an issue I guess..
Now I've come to the decision whether or not / when I am to give it a go and ask her on a date and/or the formal.
I know this sounds selfish, but I don't really care about hurting my male friend in the act of asking her out as he hurt my female friend.
So I guess my question is, how long do I leave before asking her out (to give her some emotional relief from this guy) AND maybe some tips on doing so?
As I've never really had a real girlfriend before (I'm just going on 16 y.o. btw)