sleeping arrangements in marriage/cohabitation

[sunspot1996]

How early in a relationship should I let a woman know upfront that when we get married I want her to ban me from her bedroom? I want to hear her say "I think you should sleep on the couch tonight"

After 1 month of moving in with my girlfriend I want her to boot me from the apartment. How soon should I be upfront about letting her know these things?

Ladies how would you feel if your boyfriend or husband asked you "so when are you going to boot me from the house?"

[qwertz]

erm...why would you want such a thing?

[sunspot1996]

because it gives me a sexual charge.

How soon should I tell her this upfront? I get a sexual charge from a woman depriving me of the privileges of living with her & sleeping in her bed.

[qwertz]

just come out with and tell her you like that kind of thing then...but she may not and you will have to accept that, or move on.
I cant see her liking doing it regularly...but then that kind of thing doesnt get me off so i wouldnt know!

[Junket]

Isn't it less exciting if the sentiment isn't genuine?

You should just leave your socks on the floor all the time.

[qwertz]

Isn't it less exciting if the sentiment isn't genuine?

You should just leave your socks on the floor all the time.

But then if it is genuine, how is that found a turn on..when your gf's so mad she throws you out...

[vashti]

I think you sound like a dream come true, but then again, i am a light sleeper, and snoring keeps me awake at night. Every now and then, I can't take it anymore and boot my husband out of bed. It's either that, or smother him with a pillow.

[Gigabitch]

If you have a kink that is so easy for her to satisfy, why not come right out and tell her? Start by asking her what turns her on and be willing to comply, then explain to her that you enjoy rejection and, hopefully for her, the subsequent frustration followed by grovelling and make-up sex.

[girl68]

That's called role playing.

And if she's serious- she's not going to give a hoot in hell if it gives you "sexual charge", you will fulfill yourself in these instances.

[sunspot1996]

If I tell her then it takes all the fun out of it. The only way I can be turned on is if she genuinely gives me the boot & takes away my privileges. To know that she's just role playing is not enough to satisfy me.

[Gigabitch]

Then you need to find someone frigid and bitchy.

Maybe somebody like this guy's wife:

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/intimate-forum/34138-very-unhappy.html[/url]

[girl68]

How should I let a woman know upfront that when we get married I want her to ban me from her bedroom?

If I tell her then it takes all the fun out of it.

Ok WTF? How early should you let her know? Never. You should just piss her off so you get kicked out. Then when you get all hot and bothered, F**k yourself.

[sunspot1996]

Well I am not looking to purposely piss her off. I just need to find a woman who will throw me out without a good reason or for something minor. Like let's say I failed to paint the house in a timely manner. If she threw me out for that I'd get turned on.

[girl68]

OK I get it. Goodluck finding a "crazy" girl who really isn't "crazy".

But I'm curious what happens AFTER. You're all turned on, but she's kicked you out. And according to you, it can't be for a joke. So she's ACTUALLY mad. You're only looking at half the story. You're horny and she's pissed. Only crazy girls screw when pissed. Again- goodluck.

[doppelgaenger]

TROLL!

I mean come on, this is so beyond ridiculous. It can't be real.