Repressed Nympho?

[cboox]

I have been going out with my girl for 8 months, and we do love one another. She unfortunately has very low self-esteem and an explosive temper, and fortunately an insatiable sex drive. The problem is at night, she constantly has sex dreams - humping the sheets, moaning, touching herself, soliciting someone to call her, grabbing my penis and saying another man's name, etc. In public, I constantly see her looking at other guys. To top it off, I know her father was a terrible cheat, which leads me to believe she is destined to screw up. Maybe she is psychologically wrestling with herself.

I also check out other girls and have had sexual dreams as well, which makes me think that maybe I'm being hypocritical. I have given her the benefit of the doubt, and now I am asking for counseling and I have already mentioned breaking things off.

She is very upset and seems to be open to therapy, claiming that my image of her is all wrong.

We have talked about marriage, kids, etc. and I don't want to walk away.

Any thoughts?

[Wallace Stevens]

Explosive temper? Looking at other men? This woman sounds like a piece of work. I would be careful.

[Mish]

How do her low self esteem and explosive temper manifest themselves?

[cboox]

She constantly puts herself down, criticizing her body weight and her work. Her explosive tempter manifests if anyone criticizes her.

[Junket]

Do.

Not.

Marry.

Her.

[speakerspoke]

Do.

Not.

Marry.

Her.

This is all you need to know for now. lol

[loudrims_inc]

hmm...regarding the nympho part, u can consider it a BAD thing or a GOOD thing...

GOOD: You can pretty much have sex anytime u want if your up for it
BAD: I hope she doesnt go bar-hopping, especially if she feels that way...(i had my own bad experience with that)...just my .02

[Gigabitch]

She sounds like a fun girlfriend, but that is not the mother of your children.

[jayne]

Unfortunatly her confidence is nowhere to be seen. It can be tough telling someone they are beautiful every day when they don't believe you.

Think about how your feeling too. it's ok to look at the oppersite sex as long as you don't touch, acknowledge when your feeling jelous and try to think about why your experiencing feeling that way, you could even talk to you girlfriend about how you felt.

Start by saying I felt jelous when You looked at another guy, it makes me think of ... perhaps you can help each other with your insecurities.

[speakerspoke]

Original Poster, just for the fun of it, do the same thing to her, call out other girls names, hump your sheets, you could even faux sleep walk and do it with the night stand, try to keep a straight face and prepare to laugh your ass off for the rest of your life when you think of it.

Shout out random obscenities along the way as well, and be sure to include the name of one of her hot friends. If you're feeling really adventurous, tell her you had sex with your last therapist as you fake orgasm into a nerf football, tell her to run a deep route opposite of the door, have your car keys in hand and make your escape after you toss the deep pass. lol