really need advice

[taurus]

hi ladys please help ,im in a predicament and not sure what to do ,i have fallen in love with a girl ,we spent a little bit of time together she knows i like her a lot ,trouble is didnt hear from her for 3 and half months until now she phoned to say she has broken up with boyfriend and she is sad she,wants to meet me for lunch tomorrow not sure what to say ,i do want to tell her i love her but would it be the right time or not

[Alvery]

Go have lunch with her, catch up on things but don't profess your love for her yet! See how things go with her. She just broke up, give her some time to grieve over the loss of a relationship.

[girl68]

Don't be a rebound. Be a listening ear for now...

[speakerspoke]

You can't be in love with a girl you never dated. lol

Either you're in lust, or you're a narcissist.

Try this, go out with another girl, for this one knows you're whipped before anything has even begun.

[Aeradalia]

What did you do in the little time together?

What led to her being gone for 3 1/2 months?

Quite a bit of missing information here.

[speakerspoke]

I'm sure the delightful details will be posted in time, patience. lol

[taurus]

hi to all we have been out to dinner and lunch i have spent a couple of nights at her house in her bed ,we did hug and kiss when we were together ,she got really drunk at a party and hooked up with a guy and got pregnant ,but aborted then she said she fell in love because of the hormones since then she has realised the error of her ways and phoned me for support

[SS Gal]

You sound like you might be her rebound. I'd take my time with her and if she really has seen the error in her ways as she claims, you will see by her actions before too long. Be a friend to her during this difficult time and keep your feelings to yourself until you've spent enough time together to know if you want to get involved with this girl long term.