Why?

[cassandra]

Why do some men act like jerks and take advantage to me?This has been happening to me lately.I had this happen to me Wendsday night when I went out with my friends Ashley and Becca.One guy wanted sex and I told him no way.He still asked forcing it and I did to him,kicked him in the genitals with my heels with a very hard kick and he fell to the floor hurting in pain.A couple of them were touching my butt and luckily security caught them doing this which they were kicked out.I have had enough of this and luckily the onwer of of this club has great security guys.I admit there were a couple men that were nice to my friends Ashley and Becca treating us very well,bought us drinks on them.

[vashti]

This is not to blame you for their bad behavior, but there is a reason they chose you instead of someone else. How were you dressed, and were you drunk?

[cassandra]

I was not drunk at the time,was on my second beer.I was wearing a top showing no cleavage,pair of jeans and a pair of 3 inch black heels.These men thought I was hot looking.I cannot stand men that are jerks and that ticks me off.

[Junket]

Walking down an alley where you got mugged before isn't exactly wise, now is it?

I guess if you walked down with a group of tough looking friends, or while packin' heat you might be fine, but are you catchin' my drift?

[cassandra]

I get it and never go alone,have at least a couple friends of mine with me always.I am not to mess with,I took self defense classes 10 years ago which has helped.My friends Ashley and Becca and I were glad the two men treated us very well,Patrick and Manny were there

[Junket]

Female friends don't mean shit.

You need an intimidating guy if you want to ward off the dogs.

[cassandra]

Going to next week.My guy friends Bruno,Nathan and Jamie are going,are very tough and are just like me: Do not mess with me.

[damn2008]

Not surprising...you're going to find your share of jerks and a-holes at clubs...but you might also bump into the occasional nice guys. Thats just the atmosphere...unfortunately you just have to expect it.

[cassandra]

Hopefully It gets better next week Tuesday,I am going to have a group of friends with me,male and female friends.I am learning about it although I am single now,been divorced for a month now and I was married to a jerk

[IndiReloaded]

Don't go to clubs where guys like this go?

[vashti]

yeah, i'm not sure i understand why you'd want to return to the place where this happened. something is fishy...

[IndiReloaded]

Going to next week.My guy friends Bruno,Nathan and Jamie are going,are very tough and are just like me: Do not mess with me.

Whatever your message is, its not what you think. I've trained for years in MA, like you. I've never had the experience you describe.

You are putting yourself in situations where these things are prone to happen. A person who chooses to put themselves in dubious locales late at night in revealing clothing isn't a victim, IMO. Be smarter.

[cassandra]

This club has tight security and deal with the men that are jerks very well.Guys say I look like a hottie and I get this all the time.My male friends Bruno,Nathan and Jamie are not to mess with.They work out a lot and have experiences in Karate.I admit I kick very well in heels too.

[mature student]

I strongly advise u to go to another club, I wouldnt even make eye contact with the likes of them, if they tink they can get away with talking to you like that they will, and Sorrie but if the owner was so good he wouldnt like the likes of them pratts in through the doors

[Chupacabras]

And yet you're going back to the same club with the same upscale clientele.

Originally I was going to say you need to start going to more upscale clubs, but after reading your replies, my bet is it keeps happening because you like it.