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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post
    Fras if you don't have much in regards to orgasms that could affect your perceptions of sex. Which means your views may differ noticeably from the general male perceptions toward sex. Might even be a sign of a possible problem?

    Never been with a man who didn't cry out every once in a while at least.
    I generally feel like everything leading up to the orgasm is great, and instead of a climax, it's just kinda like "aw, the ride is over...".

    Then again, I'm beginning to wonder about the condoms.

    Sometimes I prefer handjobs and oral just because I can feel more.

    She won't let me in her behind without one, still.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post

    She won't let me in her behind without one, still.
    scummy scum
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    Quote Originally Posted by ecojeanne View Post
    scummy scum
    Hey now, that's mean. I'm an ass fiend, I can't help it.

    Wouldn't want to do it without her being reasonably clean back there, though.

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    thats fine so whats your problem with a condom from behind? you're contradicting yourself
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    Quote Originally Posted by ecojeanne View Post
    thats fine so whats your problem with a condom from behind? you're contradicting yourself
    Well, really, it's a combination of things.

    One, we have anal so infrequently that it feels like it's always the first time. Y'know, it's kinda awkward and I'm worrying about hurting her, and she's a bit timid, and it's just such a mood killer. Most of the time when I ejaculate from that sex it's very just, bleh. Worse than my usual orgasms. Plus, I'm moving so slow that I don't really feel much of anything. There's more pressure, yeah, but since I'm wearing a condom, that's really the biggest difference. I mean, I'm essentially f*cking the condom, which happens to be in a hole, where the hole is doesn't really matter so much.

    Hell I could f*ck a horse and the experience wouldn't be all that different.

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    lol i love the horse reference, i have much admiration for you now, i dunno why, maybe coz you made me laugh
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    Haha, why did you "LoL"?

    I'm glad someone can get a kick out of my sexual despair.

    I really want to have good anal sex!

    It's frustrating sometimes because mentally I can be very sexually charged, but either I'm too tired, or our timing isn't synchronized.

    Like right now, I have so much dirt running through my mind.

    Plus I think she needs some TLC and I'm not up for that right now, which means she won't be up for any raunchy sex.

    -sigh-

    -sniffle-

    -blows nose-

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    i feel kind of sorry for your girlfriend. Trying to do her up the ass all the time. What's in it for her?
    Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee View Post
    I generally feel like everything leading up to the orgasm is great, and instead of a climax, it's just kinda like "aw, the ride is over...".

    Then again, I'm beginning to wonder about the condoms.

    Sometimes I prefer handjobs and oral just because I can feel more.

    She won't let me in her behind without one, still.

    Condoms can be a real downer for sex at times. You're not the first guy I've heard that had a hard time getting the most out of the experience due to a condom. Even from the female perspective it just doesn't feel right, and you miss out on feeling the guy cum (which seems to change the whole experience somehow).

    If you were adamant to never have any kids, I'd suggest you go ahead and get a vasectomy... or ask her to get on birth control (if you're willing to risk it on 89% pregnancy prevention). Adding spermicide should increase the preventative abilities as well. I think I heard something about 5 year birth control for women? That might be worth looking into as well.

    I keep waiting for the reversible vasectomy...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II View Post
    i feel kind of sorry for your girlfriend. Trying to do her up the ass all the time. What's in it for her?
    I don't know, maybe I should quit this relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aeradalia View Post
    Condoms can be a real downer for sex at times. You're not the first guy I've heard that had a hard time getting the most out of the experience due to a condom. Even from the female perspective it just doesn't feel right, and you miss out on feeling the guy cum (which seems to change the whole experience somehow).

    If you were adamant to never have any kids, I'd suggest you go ahead and get a vasectomy... or ask her to get on birth control (if you're willing to risk it on 89% pregnancy prevention). Adding spermicide should increase the preventative abilities as well. I think I heard something about 5 year birth control for women? That might be worth looking into as well.

    I keep waiting for the reversible vasectomy...
    Actually I'd have to say the one thing I hate most about condoms is that the pre-lubricated kind tend to have a horrible taste, even non-lubricated leave things tasting like latex so when I go back down to finish the job it's just, bleh.

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    vacectomys are reversable

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    Excellent ! I like it very much.

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    Quote Originally Posted by qwerty123 View Post
    vacectomys are reversable
    Not always... complications can arise... and when it comes to sterility you had better be sure you're willing to handle the consequences of it becoming "permanent."

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