what does this mean?

[sashajade]

So I connected with a guy from my childhood a month ago...he was my first crush, first kiss and then some but we went to separate high schools and lost touch. I found him online a couple of months ago and we completely clicked and have talked almost every day for about 2 months now. I was finally able to meet up with him last weekend (he lives about 3 hours away)...we had an amazing time and things were going really well.

NOW a few days ago an ex of mine whom I dated in the spring called me to let me know he's in town for a couple of weeks (he lives in another state)... made the mistake of mentioning it to the guy who kinda freaked out...he told me to call him in a couple of weeks after the guy was gone and if he was receptive then great but that he probably wouldn't be....he told me to reverse the situation..say I went out with him had an amazing time, stayed the night with him (we met halfway) and things were going great and then he were to call me and tell me his ex was in town wanting to get back together but if things didn't work out I would be next in line...HE TOTALLY JUMPED TO CONCLUSIONS because I NEVER said I wanted to get back together with him. Anyway, he was upset the entire day although he said he wasn't mad...he just said he doesn't play those kinds of games and if I didn't have "unfinished business" I would have said I wasn't going to see him...Should he be acting like this? We've only gone out once and I know if I was to make any assumption that we were exclusive he would be quick to point that out. After the date we both talked about how well it went and that we were both interested and would see where it led..that's it. I DO know that neither of us was talking to anyone else but I never thought this meant that we couldn't. OKAY ANYWAY..the next day I texted him ALOT and tried to explain that the guy didn't mean anything to me anymore, etc and he ignored my text...finally he calls me late that night and is mad for all the texts I guess...I told him the entire things was HIS fault (for jumping to conclusions) and he blew up and hung up on me. He text me saying I made a horrible mistake blaming him. I text him back trying to explain what i meant and he said he was going to bed and not to text him again...well I was really upset at this point and I did...so then he texts back that we are not talking for one week and if I text him again it would be two...he said that I was going to respect what he says and thats final....I didn't text him again but then a couple of minutes later he texts that he would call me next Thursday IF i respected what he said....So I didn't (and haven't) text him...one i'm not going to text someone who says not to, and two I DO respect him...but does this sound like he's controlling? I almost feel like he's treating me like a kid...he hasn't acted like this any other time the last couple of months and I really did hit it off with him and like him so far..but what does this mean? It's been 3 days now since we've talked...if he wasn't interested would he have flipped out about the guy? Would he just say he didn't want to talk at all instead of the week thing? HELP!

[Chupacabras]

Sounds like psycho talk to me. If you have no mutually agreed upon exclusivity, he has absolutely no reason to be acting like a controlling child.

[Bumble_bee]

red flag.....run for the hills