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    Is this a turn off

    Ok this is my situation.

    I am a 27 year old male, I recently split from my girlfriend with which I shared a flat. I have since put an offer in on a house which has been accepted. I expect to get the keys to my new place in 5-8 weeks time.

    My question is this. I am due to go on a date with a independant 24 year old woman, is the fact that I am crashing at my parents house whilst the sale goes through a big turn off?

    I should mention that if it does not go through in 8 weeks I will move out to rented accomidation again, also should add that I left home when I was 21 (proven track record of living alone etc)

    Advice?

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    No, of course not. If you tell the woman that your only staying at your parents house until your place is ready then it's fine.
    Usually when you go on a date you tell eachother about your life so I would tell her your story about moving out of your parents house at 21 and living on your own since.
    I certainly wouldnt be turned off and I hope an independent 24 year old woman would understand that.

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    That's not a turn off, but focusing on it might be. if you seem to be really anxious about how you're perceived or especially if you go on and on with explanations about why you're staying with them (i.e. the breakup) that will kill the fun.

    Just focus on the date, have a good time and make plans to see her again. If you time it right, maybe she can be a very important part of your housewarming.
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    No that's not a turn off. If that's a deal breaker to her she's not that clever anyway. It's temporary, as you stated. You don't have to turn it into a big thing or anything, just tell her the truth if she asks and don't worry too much about it. If you don't care about it, she won't either.
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    Wait, by "turn-off", do you mean is it going to get in the way of you getting laid?
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