A small hello from Denmark

**RomantiGoth** · 20-10-09, 03:22 AM

... I suppose that is it... Hello

Okay, maybe a short introduction to what I am doing here? Yes?

Okay - in short, I am trying to become the best boyfriend of all time. That is my goal - to make my girlfriend as happy as magically possible. I have come a long way from analysing myself and my relationships (past and present), but I have concluded that I need to face the world in order to become more knowledgeable on myself.

At the same time, it would be great if I could help others a little, with the troubles that lies ahead of them (and of all of us).

Btw, sorry about my spelling - I'm Danish, I can't help it

**Gigabitch** · 20-10-09, 03:36 AM

That's great and all, but you can't advertise your romance advice site in your signature.

**RomantiGoth** · 20-10-09, 03:56 AM

Ohh... sorry about that then... I'll correct it immediatly

**Gigabitch** · 20-10-09, 04:09 AM

Okay, down to business. What makes you feel that you are not, already, the best boyfriend ever?

**RomantiGoth** · 20-10-09, 04:36 AM

I do not do the dishes very often (although I do help out when my girlfriend asks, and at times even when she does not - it depends on if I am doing something more "focused")... In short, I should be better to do some household duties by myself, instead of waiting and letting it be the anoyance of the both of us (she dislikes mess as much as I do)..

But that is only a nuisance..

The real problem is that I have a tendency of hurting her (NOT physically, mind you).. Usually we have a great time for about half a year, before I do something terrible, that always ends up in a lot of crying (on both parts).. Being polyamorous is a little hard, as is being in a semi-open relationship..

Mostly it would just be nice to know everything, so I/we would not have to learn it the hard-and-almost-breaking-up way... If I were the best boyfriend, then issues would not arise... ever...

**Gigabitch** · 20-10-09, 04:59 AM

Well, whose idea is the polyamorous thing? Are you really trying to be polyamorous and still be the world's best boyfriend? That seems like a contradiction in terms to me.

**RomantiGoth** · 20-10-09, 05:08 AM

I cannot help it... It is just the way I feel.. I became conscionsly aware of it half a year ago, but I had multiple feeling in past relationships as well...

So I suppose that you could call it my "idea"... but we are both (my girlfriend and I) attracted to another girl... Without getting into details, we have had a couple of threesomes

But yes, in terms it might seem contradicting, but it depends on the second/third part... in this case, it is not as contradicting as it might be.. but it almost costed us out relationship - it is HARD to turn two people into three... All I can say is that I have the worlds most lovely girlfriend...

(just for the record, not my girlfriend is NOT just doing the threesome thing because of me.. we have been very specific about that part, because it would not go well long-term if it was otherwise!)

**Gigabitch** · 20-10-09, 05:14 AM

Well, are you having threesomes with girls she picks or girls you pick?

**RomantiGoth** · 20-10-09, 05:26 AM

a girl that WE pick... not just any girl.. it is the same girl that we have had both threesomes with... she is a very close friend of the both of us, and my girlfriend was actually jealous of me, because I had a better relationship with our friend..

When the three of us are together, we connect more than we do with other people.. Our friend is a lot like my girlfriend and myself, and as a "reaction" of this, we all kiss, hug and hold hands.. (not at the same time, it is a little difficult space-wise)

Our friend is more like a girlfriend to the both of us...

**Gigabitch** · 20-10-09, 05:29 AM

That sounds like trouble. I would imagine threesomes are difficult enough without adding the complication of attachment.

Would you be willing to have a threesome with someone else? Because what this looks like to me is that you have two girlfriends and I think that's what it looks like to Girlfriend #1 as well.

**RomantiGoth** · 20-10-09, 05:38 AM

no, I would not have a threesome with someone else

I am sorry, if you get the wrong impression of our complicated relationship, it is a little difficult to describe... But my girlfriend "#1" is nearly as attached as I am to our friend..

I have just asked my girlfriend "#1", how she feel it is, at she says that sometimes it feels like me with two girlfriends, but only when she is feeling jealous.. Otherwise she says that it is pretty much just the three of us...

**Gigabitch** · 20-10-09, 05:44 AM

Well, then it must be the dishes. Go do the dishes.

**doppelgaenger** · 20-10-09, 06:55 AM

Goddag

Jeg taler en smule dansk.

**RomantiGoth** · 20-10-09, 02:44 PM

Originally Posted by Gigabitch

Well, then it must be the dishes. Go do the dishes.

My girlfriend just reminded me that she have written a bit about the whole Ménage à trois

Firstly the bad news:
bemygoth.com/2009/07/12/gothic-love/
Then the good news:
bemygoth.com/2009/10/18/oh-that-lovely-romance/

(sorry for the poor state of the links, but I'm not allowed to post links untill I have 15 posts

)

Originally Posted by doppelgaenger

Goddag

Jeg taler en smule dansk.

jamen goddag goddag

hvor har du lært det?

**Illusional** · 20-10-09, 02:49 PM

so we had a discussion in class today, and i heard that denmark was feminist country. not like a faggot or anything, but more like a maternal or caring country. what's your thoughts on this?

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