Warning: This may be a little long but I am letting it all out...!!!
ok as most of you know, i am in a LDR and one of the main reasons they never work is because u cant see your other when u need them or when u want. Seems like everything has to be on a schedule, well this sucks big time. The crazy part is that i love this girl sooooo muchhh and i promised her that i will always be here for her. Now I keep thinking, is this really going to work out. You guys have no idea the sacrafices i made to make this work out and now its taking a really huge toll on me!! I feel great when i talk to her and after i talk to her but when i dont, i feel like crap! Now these are the key points in our relationship:
1- She lives in Canada and i live in NJ/USA(9hrs away).
2- Her family believes in arranged marriage and she was supposed to get married about 2 months ago but refused because she wants me.
3- I cant call her because she is not supposed to have a bf because her parents want her to marry some guy she doesnt know (note: she is 27)
4- We been together for about 5 months now and i have never ever felt this way before about anyone and she tells me the same.
5- I have never ever called her ONCE, not even Once because of #2 and #3 above. I have to wait for her to call me.
These are just some of the MAIN points in our relationship. It just feels like im just waiting and waiting, i have to wait for her to call me every single day. Shyt, i cant even send her a text message. She cant even call me on her cell phone because her crazy sister will check the bill and report back to her parents then all hell will break lose. I just keep asking myself, how much more can i take?? I wasnt supposed to fall in love but it just happened, i have no regrets about being with her but i just dont know what to do anymore.
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23-10-09, 06:34 AM #1
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LDR and the sacrifices i made!
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"Sometimes the hardest part isn't saying GoodBye, Its waking up the next morning knowing that its TRUE" -AR
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23-10-09, 06:53 AM #2
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Have you ever met her in person loudrims?
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23-10-09, 06:56 AM #3
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Sounds like your relationship will be in a world of pain if her parents are unable to accept you.
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23-10-09, 06:56 AM #4
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is there a light at the end of the tunnel so to speak?
Is there a time when she can move away? something to aim for?
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23-10-09, 07:03 AM #5
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OMG I didn't know it was like this!!
How old is this girl and does she love you enough to become independent?
If she is so against these principles and beliefs of her parents...
You would think she would do more to be with him.
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23-10-09, 07:23 AM #6
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The girl needs to get internet.
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23-10-09, 07:24 AM #7
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Once, a few months ago but Im going to see her next week again.
Originally Posted by Primo
She made it clear to me that she dont care what her parents think. Originally Posted by Mishanya
Actually yes, she is waiting until this court case clears up then she plans on moving to NJ with me but that can be another year or so. Originally Posted by qwerty123
She is 27 and yes she loves me enough to leave everything behind and be with me but she has to wait until this court case ends. Originally Posted by CocoChanel
Last edited by loudrims_inc; 24-10-09 at 07:50 AM. Reason: didnt give enough detail
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"Sometimes the hardest part isn't saying GoodBye, Its waking up the next morning knowing that its TRUE" -AR
" When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want your life to start as soon possible" -?
"Too Fast to Live, Too Young to Die" -James Dean
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23-10-09, 07:25 AM #8
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ooo i forgot to mention, we do chat on yahoo IM alot!! ...we also share pictures and videos. Originally Posted by lastwish
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"Sometimes the hardest part isn't saying GoodBye, Its waking up the next morning knowing that its TRUE" -AR
" When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want your life to start as soon possible" -?
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23-10-09, 07:26 AM #9
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So, whats the problem? Can't you guys do webcame when her parents aren't home?
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23-10-09, 07:31 AM #10
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Yeah then what is the problem silly boy. LOL!
Sounds like in a week all your problems will be fixed.
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23-10-09, 07:32 AM #11
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yea we do but trust me, thats not enough! Originally Posted by lastwish
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"Sometimes the hardest part isn't saying GoodBye, Its waking up the next morning knowing that its TRUE" -AR
" When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want your life to start as soon possible" -?
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23-10-09, 07:34 AM #12
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Yea its going to be fixed for a few days, then all this starts over again lol Originally Posted by CocoChanel
OOOOOOOOOOOOO...and also, i forgot to mention, i got this nice hotel suite i rented BUT she cant stay with me all night. We can only see each other about 4 hrs Thurs, 4 hrs Fri and about 8 on Sat.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
"Sometimes the hardest part isn't saying GoodBye, Its waking up the next morning knowing that its TRUE" -AR
" When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want your life to start as soon possible" -?
"Too Fast to Live, Too Young to Die" -James Dean
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23-10-09, 07:41 AM #13
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Omg. You are clingy.
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Unless, you want her to stay all night because you want to sex. Thats understandable.
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23-10-09, 07:43 AM #15
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umm...nope... Originally Posted by lastwish
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"Sometimes the hardest part isn't saying GoodBye, Its waking up the next morning knowing that its TRUE" -AR
" When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want your life to start as soon possible" -?
"Too Fast to Live, Too Young to Die" -James Dean
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