Confused

[subyftw]

So, I met this girl a little over month ago and we've gone out on two dates and we talk to each other pretty much everyday. I absolutely love this girl, amazing personality, I can talk to her for hours about anything. I just feel so comfortable around her and she makes me feel so happy. Our dates went great, we pretty much spent the entire day together on the second date and we ended the night cuddling at her place watching movies. So recently, I brought up the relationship thing and we started talking about that. She tells me that she doesn't want to get into one because she is so busy(which she is) and won't have time for whoever shes with. She also has been in some bad relationships and maybe she just doesn't want heartbreak again. Also, there is another guy that she talks to all the time and hangs out with occasionally but she has told me out right that he is in the friend zone and shes told me that she doesn't see me going into the dreaded friend zone. So yea, I'm a little confused if she doesn't want to get into a relationship because of her busyness or if its for another reason she wont tell me. Should I wait a little longer since we've only been dating for a month and see what happens.

[vashti]

you've only had 2 dates.

It's too soon to be boyfriend/girlfriend. You barely know each other.

The problem with pursuing this so soon is that you risk making her think you are clingy. i suggest you back off a little, and quick!

[RonHH]

I think you hit on it,,, She my be keeping herself busy to forget a bad relationship.
Your starting out right !! don't push,,, and just do what your doing, Be her friend
and she will put more trust in you.

[subyftw]

Thanks. I guess I'll back off a little and give it a couple of months. I think i just wanted to rush into it cause I like this girl so much.

[girl68]

Whatever you do... don't say you love her!

[subyftw]

That I haven't done.