2+ years, my feelings

[Steve14]

Hey guys,

I just turned 18 and have been in a relationship since I was 15. The girl I’m with is absolutely fantastic. She cares about me, is beautiful, and is all around just a great person. I know I’m so lucky to be in a relationship with her. Lately though, I’ve been feeling doubtful. I’m afraid if I stay with this girl for many years to come I might regret that I was never able to experience other things, or simply being free on my own. I don’t mean I want to “mess around” with other girls or anything, not like that, I just feel I might regret never being on my own and seeing what other experiences are out there. On the other hand, I’m afraid that if I break it off, I’ll be on my own yet always regret that I lost her. It seems to me that I might have regrets either way. Does this make me a jerk? I feel that I should be appreciative of what I have, and yet I can’t help wondering what it would be like to be on my own. I’d appreciate to see what others have to say, from thoughts to experiences.

Thanks

[RonHH]

no it doesn't make you a jerk, but I was on my own ,,, It sucked !!!!
I found I can check out new things and go places but my sweetheart goes with me.
Things are so much nicer if you can share them with someone.
Take care

[girl68]

Read this:

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/35478-long-term-girlfriend-having-doubts.html[/url]

Essentially the same situation. We've all been there... we all got out. Despite our ex's all being very good people.

[Steve14]

Yeah I am in a very similar situation. I didn't see that. Thanks for the feedback