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    What do you do..

    What do you do when you can't be with the one you love but at the same time find it impossible to follow the standard advice given here to pull away and move on??

    Why is it impossible to move on?? Because she is by all measures perfect and no one else is able to come close..

    Seems in this scenario the answer is to live a life of pain and suffering with the only break being those good times you are able to share with her.. Those brief moments when you forget yourself and the fact that you can't be together and you that will have to say goodbye later and go home alone..

    Not sure why I am posting this.. Guess it helps to just get it out there even if there isn't anything anyone can say or do..

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    It's not impossible to move on. The only reason you won't is because you aren't willing to suffer the pain of separation.

    When you are ready, you will do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    It's not impossible to move on. The only reason you won't is because you aren't willing to suffer the pain of separation.

    When you are ready, you will do it.
    I have done it before.. I tried to break it off and we never spoke for about a year.. I never got over her and missed her, others I met during that time didn't come close in my eyes.. Then one day we bumped into each other and just like the first time it was love at first sight (again) so to speak..

    The attraction between us is like nothing I have experienced before and I just can't break it.. I am the most rational and logical person you will ever meet and I know this situation is illogical and crazy but even so I can't find a way to "fix" it..

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    Because you have this perfect image of her and that no one else will come close...

    She's human: she's not perfect or special, you can't date her so you wouldn't know if she would work well in a relationship with you...

    I met some girl I thought was perfect, dated her and she turned out to be terrible for me relationship wise....she's only human

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