Great forum...unfortunately I found you guys from my own angst and disappointment. Sorry, I'm naturally longwinded, lol.
So, met a guy online about two months ago. Long distance thing started up a bit. Acts like he is CRAZY about me..."there is something about me that he knows we will end up together", "he wants to marry me based on my voice alone (was said jokingly)" and made some general plans about a trip to meet each other, then was already talking about my moving to where he lives and moving in with him (I had expressed interest in moving somewhere new). I could go on.
He's in England, I'm in the US...so there is a 6-hour time difference. As such, communication is challenging, but he doesn't seem to really even try. Though, when we do chat or talk or e-mail each other...he is just gushing with "sweet, adoring" words.
We had a long, great conversation on a Tuesday a couple weeks ago. I e-mailed him 2-3 times that week. No response. Wasn't online (again) at all that weekend. Sent him two (IM's), no response. Nothing the next week...I didn't e-mail him either, until Friday. Polite e-mail. Asked what was going on, if he was just super busy or trying to give me a hint. E-mailed me back...I'm so sexy, he can't wait to chat, sorry so busy, blah blah.
Called him Friday night as I got off work, but my cell phone was being wacky and I asked if he would call me back at my work number. Said yes...then didn't.
Was online today, but didn't respond to the IM I sent. He was online for HOURS!!!! I am SO HURT!
I get that he is not interested anymore. But why would he write the same crap just yesterday? Why did he have to play games with me? He is 45 years old, for heaven's sake!
So, (finally) my question. I REALLY want to write him one last e-mail. Nothing bitchy, just a "Hey, you really hurt my feelings when you didn't call back and ignored me online. I don't understand why you did that to me."
Bad idea? I know it is childish and petty, I should just ignore him, but I want to KNOW WHY!!! ARRRGGHHH. Not even why he is not interested, just why he would be so heartless and dismissive.
Ideas? Thoughts? Thanks in advance, guys