+ Follow This Topic
Results 1 to 8 of 8

Thread: A friend that might like me? I need opinions.

  1. #1
    Join Date
    Nov 2009
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Long Island, NY
    Posts
    3

    A friend that might like me? I need opinions.

    Straight to the point, I have many male friends. I actually only have 4 female friends (all the other girls are just acquaintances) and the majority of my circle of friends are males.

    There is this one guy friend that I've only known for about two months but we talk all the time. We went to high school together and we knew of each other but didn't take the initiative to get to know each other.

    About two months ago, he did and we've been close ever since. We've actually "hung out" (only him and I) twice, him asking me both times. And both those times, I had broken off with a boyfriend. So he's been my shoulder and a true friend.

    He does like to flirt here and there, whether it be innocent flirting or making sexual comments. But because we do talk a lot, it's comfortable and nothing serious. The other night, we were sitting in his car talking and he placed his hand on top of mine. I thought it was very sweet.

    He also likes to emphasize how "cute" he thinks I am. "You're a cute girl" or "You're a hot girl" etc.

    Another thing is that he does have a lot of girl friends, I've noticed, so all of this could just be his personality. What do you guys think?
    Semper Fidelis.
    I believe in love, I believe in faith, I believe and hold on to hope.
    I believe that falling in love can happen over time, or even at first sight.

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Sep 2009
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    New Mexico
    Posts
    281
    I say he likes you, try increasing your flirting with him. That may help you
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Sep 2009
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    New York
    Posts
    601
    He's flirting with you so it may mean that he likes you. If you wanna find out flirt back.

    I think he likes you though. I don't ask my female friends to hang out and tell them their cute or hot without having a reason for it.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    31
    It's obvious he likes you..

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Jun 2005
    Gender
    Male
    Posts
    436
    he wants his penis in and/or around your mouth

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Dec 2003
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Los Angeles, U.S.A
    Posts
    929
    Quote Originally Posted by all alone View Post
    he wants his penis in and/or around your mouth
    or friends with benefits.
    To be or not to be?

    Is that the question?

  7. #7
    Join Date
    Nov 2009
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Long Island, NY
    Posts
    3
    He does talk about this other girl once in a blue moon, that he wants to date but he doesn't want to at the same time because they are close friends.

    He just asked me to hang out again on Friday. Apparently, the whole day as we have nothing to do. He told me he usually go to his friends but that I can tag along and then hang out alone afterward.

    This is how our convo went:

    him: i get out at like 12, then i usually go do car stuff with my friend vinny, i mean if you wanna chill all dayyy
    him: you can tag along i dont mind
    me: meh I think i'll leave the boy stuff to the boys
    him: you can come, we'll prob just be chillen haha
    me: ok if you want me to
    him: you can haha
    me: ya want me to?
    him: omg just do it

    He's a great friend but I don't know if I really like him that way. We'll see.
    Semper Fidelis.
    I believe in love, I believe in faith, I believe and hold on to hope.
    I believe that falling in love can happen over time, or even at first sight.

  8. #8
    Join Date
    Dec 2003
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Los Angeles, U.S.A
    Posts
    929
    From the convo, it looks like he just wants you around. If you go, he'll probably not give you much attention since,like you said, its a boy to boy thing.
    Your just gonna hear lots of boy stuff and if I were you I would not dress to impress if you go.
    To be or not to be?

    Is that the question?

Similar Threads

  1. Opinions
    By nardAJC in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 02-07-09, 12:16 PM
  2. In Love With Close Friend-Need Opinions Ladies
    By cmc67 in forum Ask a Female Forum
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 29-10-08, 10:37 AM
  3. Opinions and help please!
    By inAbadSPOT in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 25
    Last Post: 20-07-08, 03:54 PM
  4. Friend>Best Friend> Not friend @ All- Long love story? Or Not?
    By shylittleguy in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 13
    Last Post: 21-10-05, 05:23 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •