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    Hugging for hugging sake?

    Do you ever just want to kiss and hold your partner tightly all night in order to feel close to them? Or do you tend to use kissing and hugging just as a precursor to sex?
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    We hug and snuggle all the time. It's nice.

    If we do so in bed at night, it often leads to sex, but not always.
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    Isnt that what huggings for?..to lead to sex
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    we hug a lot too, I grab her all the time for a snuggle. in fact, it's usually her who's pushing me away going "I'm trying to cook dinner..!"/"baby, my show's on..."/"darl, we're in the supermarket!" I think it's a healthy way of showing someone you care for them, or reminding a long-lasting lover that you still find them irresistible.

    as for leading to sex, I leave that to kissing...

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    lol I push away too. I dont mind a hug or holding on a minute but any long than that and I get cranky, in public anyway. My bf always gets hard as hell by hugging. -_0 I only hug him in bed if im ready to get slimy and nasty.

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    100% for Yes so far...Impressive
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    We hug and cuddle all the time. Sometimes it leads to sex, most of the time it doesn't. We just enjoy the warmth of each other and kisses

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    No, I hate when random people just want to hug you to say hello. So ****ing awkward.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Only-virgins View Post
    No, I hate when random people just want to hug you to say hello. So ****ing awkward.
    I absolutely HATE serial hugging, too, but I think she meant hugs that included your significant other - not strangers.

    I like hugging people I feel genuine affection for, but if they aren't a good hugger, I never do it again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    I like hugging people I feel genuine affection for, but if they aren't a good hugger, I never do it again.

    interesting...what's a 'good' hug to you?

    when I hug someone I genuinely care for I wrap them up in me, and like to be wrapped up in them, even if only for a sec.

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    I like to hug Idaho style,,, Thats when she has her back to you so it gives your hands something to do
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    Quote Originally Posted by flea View Post
    interesting...what's a 'good' hug to you?

    when I hug someone I genuinely care for I wrap them up in me, and like to be wrapped up in them, even if only for a sec.
    A good hug is warm, enthusiastic, and tight. A bad one is the equivelent of an air kiss (why bother?).

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    I love to hug my bf,and I love when he does it in return . I miss it... :/
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    I hate serial huggers too..from strangers or people i hardly know, grrr

    I do love to be wrapped up in my mans arms, to feel close and secure.
    That can be in bed too, but in bed i guess it would prob lead to sex 90% of the time, actually thats a lie, im too damn horny so would be 100%
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    Often when i hug my girlfriend, i'm not trying to initiate sex. Perhaps occassionally that is the case. Kissing is better for initiating sex.

    Of course, often hugging will follow on to other things.

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