This week some stuff happens that make me have doubts with my relationship. I have been in a LDR for 7 months. In the first 4-5 months every thing has been great. During the 3rd month when she came back to visit me, I was so excited everyday to the day she came back. But fast-forward to just 3 weeks ago...I have no feelings or excitement at all when she is back. So I though to myself...maybe it just we been for 7 months already so no biggy. But just this week I have a annual project that will take up my whole week. To my surprise, I started to flirt around (asking number too) and at night I start to feel guilty. I also realise that...she could be just be a companion I depend on when I am lonely. Cause during this week when I busy..I don't really think much of her. I admit I am scared of LDR, we will be in LDR for 5-6 more years? So I am kind of confuse whether I am just giving excuses to get me out of LDR or because my love for her have faded? I need advise. I am confused.
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21-11-09, 11:04 PM #1
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I have doubts with my relationship.
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22-11-09, 01:50 AM #2
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yup, just end it... plain and simple.
raverboy...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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22-11-09, 02:36 AM #3
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Don't bother... If You already have doubts and Your will is so small... Really break it up. You can be happy and she can be happy there too. Love can fade away after 7 months it's pretty normal. Not everybody is meant to be together... And don't worry.If You'll act nice with her,maybe You can still be friends. Nosek do góry
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22-11-09, 10:23 AM #4
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Hello all i chose a random thread cause i don't care...i love one thing and one thing only and it her him whatever refuses to ecnolige my existence I'm hollow i looked at some depression tests and they all said 100% thing is i'm to scared to pull the trigger so my miserable existence continues to drag on does anyone have any advice.
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22-11-09, 10:24 AM #5
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would have chosen a worse mood if there was one
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22-11-09, 10:25 AM #6
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just trying something !vampire
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22-11-09, 10:31 AM #7
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didn't work sorta like my life....please respond I'm posting random stuff now...I'm alone sad depressed and used to people laughing at me mocking me i have no friends or the ones i do have i just can't open to we rarely talk we're basically just people who have met before and the one thing i love still mocks me prayer Nada iv tried it didn't help but that one thing is all that will make me smile and why i cry myself to sleep every night if only inside. And still i' to afraid to pull the Dane trigger so my life continues pl;ease give me advice I'm 14 and broken already record keeper we need you ha ha WHO CARES. i suppose you all already hate my mood my gloominess but i don't care I'm beyond feel and the only thing I'm good at is putting up a front so that no one will worry I'm a boy to which makes me even sadder
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