On a short note: I've fell madly in love in this girl exacly a year ago. Things didn't go as I wanted...well...now we work together, I told her how I feel so I guess that excluded me out of F-zone...etc.
Anyway, after a whole ****ing year, I still have some feelings for her. Today I saw a old pic of her with her ex bf. I feel like shit now. Do crushes last so long?. For **** sake I'm not 16, nor even 19...I'm 25 and I feel like I'm in "there's something about Mary" movie. How do I get out of this...Why don't I have her. What's wrong with me?. If there's a bigger plan...where's that "oh it was worth hurting" moment??? HELP
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30-11-09, 06:34 AM #1
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return of the returns
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30-11-09, 06:40 AM #2
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get out and meet other women.
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30-11-09, 09:44 PM #3
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Yes, you need to meet some other women for sure. When you find someone nice you'll quickly forget about this one, considering there was little to no history there to begin with.
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30-11-09, 09:58 PM #4
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i know the feelling is impossible. You want to be embraced in it at the same time as wanting to get out. Love isnt good fo our health or our heart
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Self-esteem isn't bragging about how great you are. It's more like quietly knowing that you're worth a lot (priceless, in fact!). It's not about thinking you're perfect — because nobody is — but knowing that you're worthy of being loved and accepted.
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Originally Posted by claws
LOL. I was out of the dating scene for six years because I developed strong feelings for a woman who ended up choosing another guy and marrying him.
Yeah, take the advice here. Move on. I didn't and now it is far too late for me to marry and have children. I screwed up that portion of my life. Worse still, I am the "last of the line" so my stupidity has effectively ended the family line, too. Whoops.
Move on quickly.
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01-12-09, 03:40 PM #6
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Yea, the one you feel like you should be with is the one you don't get to be with. What a joke. Meet other women and just **** them for fun and wait for that feeling to happen again with a girl that finally will be the girl that things work out with. That is my plan.
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go to strip bars and hang out at the club. BE A MAN!
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02-12-09, 09:06 AM #8
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that's what a man can do. What can a women do? Originally Posted by davidtorres
keep it simple
Self-esteem isn't bragging about how great you are. It's more like quietly knowing that you're worth a lot (priceless, in fact!). It's not about thinking you're perfect — because nobody is — but knowing that you're worthy of being loved and accepted.
"Me, I try to send this note
float it like a paper boat
But paper sinks
and words are weak
i try, but i cant speak"
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04-12-09, 01:13 AM #9
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One of my friends said this to me the other day "blonds are just for sex while brunettes are the ones you want to marry,"
Although I only agree with the first part.anxiety out of place creates relationship static
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05-12-09, 02:54 AM #10
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CAM...damn!!!...how ****ing even more bad I feel right now!! How old are you?
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05-12-09, 12:11 PM #11
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Originally Posted by CAM
No he's not and no he hasn't. Except he's gotten comfortable with the idea of not putting himself out there. THAT is what you need to avoid. As Cam said, get back on that horse asap. Originally Posted by claws
There's a 50+ gentleman posting in another thread who is giving it a second shot. If he can, Cam can. Cam has made a conscious choice to stay on the path he can leave at any time he chooses.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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07-12-09, 12:40 AM #12
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...so, all is not that bleak...I'm 25, yes many ppl say I'm young and all that, but I dont feel like young any more. My frineds have kids, they're gettin married and so on..
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