Originally Posted by
Spring Haze
That your neurosis in regards to being overly concerned as to what others think about you needs to be worked on. You evidently have no self confidence. It's probably safe to say that should you obtain a girlfriend, she would wipe the floor with you unless she is equally passive.
More work needs to be done. Worry about your own issues by getting yourself in order FOR YOU, not for the sole purpose of entering a relationship. That could be one goal, but prioritize: you first, relationship second (or third, whatever). Psychotherapy may prove beneficial if you aren't partaking in that already.