looks, fame, money, or confidence?

[mattrocks123]

hey everybody

i'm kinda new here but i'm really eager to ask you something.

what's the greatest asset a man can have that attracts a woman?

is it

1. looks
2. fame
3. money
4. confidence?
5. any other?

I'll be happy if you include a percentage of each.
thank you so much

[QueenofCorona]

1. looks-60% I think you need to be attracted to who you are with but everyone has their own definition of what is attractive. I like guys with some meat on their bones, the pretty boy or meat heads aren't my thing.

2. fame-0% not important at all to me.

3. money-10% as long as they can pay their bills and manage their money, fine. I don't need anyone to take care of me.

4. confidence?-30% has to believe in himself, but not be concieted.

5. any other? a sense of humor, loyalty, honesty all #1 in my book

[lahnnabell]

The greatest asset a man can have is to simply know who he is. And if he doesn't know, he has the desire to figure it out. This does not have to be a direct link to hooking a woman. A woman will be attracted to a guy that has his shit figured out.

[someone3]

45% looks- sry, major factor tho
25% Honesty- definitely important. not only in a relationship but is also very attractive in my opinion
15% confidence
10% money- just enough to support himself
5% good sense of humor-definitely attractive
0% fame- i like guys who are more on the low profile side..

and of course having similar points of view and interests are kinda a given..(for me at least :/ )

[girl68]

30% looks
30% affection/ sexual compatibility
30% personality: includes confidence, and humor amoung others
10% money

I don't like popular men, and I certainly would never want anyone who came with fame.

[Sanctuary]

I feel so vindicated cuz I've had debates with my friends where I say looks matter A LOT and they always give me some bullshit about how looks aren't important, game and personality is everything.

Sure looks aren't the end all but they are a big factor and most guys disregard it like looks are meaningless or something. I don't know where they get that idea.

[Coco]

My percentages are identical to Girl68's so I will just repost by quoting.

30% looks
30% affection/ sexual compatibility
30% personality: includes confidence, and humor amoung others
10% money

[girl68]

My percentages are identical to Giga's so I will just repost by quoting.

I think you meant girl68 not giga...

[TheWizard]

I feel so vindicated cuz I've had debates with my friends where I say looks matter A LOT and they always give me some bullshit about how looks aren't important, game and personality is everything.

Sure looks aren't the end all but they are a big factor and most guys disregard it like looks are meaningless or something. I don't know where they get that idea.

It's a handful of women on a love and relationships forum - they are by no means a pool of the entire gender of our species. GENERALLY SPEAKING looks aren't that important, but you will find some that find it more so. It's all down to personal taste and preference.

[Coco]

I think you meant girl68 not giga...

I stand corrected! Thanks!

[qwertz]

whoever says look arent important, is an ugly mother****er