Okay guys, i'm new here so bear with me, and probably the length of this;
For 14 months i have been seeing this girl, after waiting 2 months and being recent friends, we got together, and all honesty it was the best thing to happen to both of us. She'd always compliment how being together has changed her into a good person, and how she loves me. We both fell in love, and her family really liked me. So Christmas 2008 went fine, until about May 2009, we argued a little but not lots, but we always sorted things out. She dumped me in May, because she felt i prevented her from seeing her friends, but everytime i suggested she go out with her friends, she wouldn't go, i always encouraged her. So we got back together and she apologized and she said she didn't mean it. From there we were fine, mind i always put the effort in, at going down to her house, i mean we spent near on everyday together. In September, she dumped me again, but 2 days later we got back together, she said she needed to push me as far away to see if i'd come back, and for her to be in control of her emotions. Again after that period we were fine. However, from November - December 2009, we argued more, we finished, more frequently, but it was only just to warn each other off, we'd use it just to make a point kind of thing. On Christmas day, we argued on the night, but it was over something silly, we finished for about all of 5 minutes, got back together. She text me that night saying, she loves me, and no matter what we'll get through anything. The next 4 days were fine, we had amazing laughs. On 30th December, she dumped me, now, this was because of a massive argument, because i was already stressed from family issues etc, she just chose the wrong moment, and i got abit wound up. Calling her a, attention seeker + a control freak. Now i didn't go into extreme cursing, i managed to hold back, although i did let a f*** off, slip. But all of this was done online, and not in person. So she finished me and said "i hope you realise what you done." So i let the first day go, second day, i really panic thinking it's for good, and go down to her house, thinking this is it, she didn't want to talk, instead gave me half my stuff back. I did text + phone alot, to which i got no reply. So i stopped contact for 2 days, and finally asked after 2 days of silence, if this is what she wants? She never replied to it, even though she did reply to me, 2 minutes before hand about getting stuff. So the next day i asked her 3 times if it's what she want and is it for good. She replied the 3rd time saying "Yes it's over for good." She won't speak to me at all, attempt to contact me, so i stopped all contact until tonight, where i tried speaking on Facebook, but she immediately went offline. She won't speak at all, but what i don't get is how we went from so happy, to just over. There was never anyone else, or anyone she liked... it just happened like that. Now i'm confused what to do, i want her back, but feel like i have to move on. Any suggestions guys?
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