How do I know?

[Vroom_Screech]

I have this girl, who I started talking to about a month ago. We knew of each other but never really talked. Well we have been talking and flirting back and forth for a while. During this period she got back with her ex. Since then they have broken up and things had been going really good for me. I started to feel like I was getting "friend-zoned" So one night were casually talking and she said she needed to tell me something and it was really hard for her to do. I tend to be self-defeating so I thought it was the inevitable "I like you, but as a friend" moment. Much to my surprise, she admitted that she did like me, but a lot. The hard part was saying that she couldnt be in any sort of a relationship or anything cause she was going through a tough breakup. (Her ex was a dick. Even more-so after they broke up.) It instantly made me happy, and things seemed to be going awesome. Weve been getting closer and closer. Things seem to be going great and she makes me so happy. I make her happy too, so it seems promising.

How do I know when shes ready to be with me? I know shes interested, I just dont know how much or when to bring it up. I dont want to make her feel pressured or forced into anything. I want her to go her own pace.

[cmacattack1]

She'll let you know when she's ready. You should kind of back away a bit and let her get herself back on track. Don't worry, she already told you she likes you alot, you shouldn't have to worry about her being with somebody else. The post breakup time is an important time to do alot of reflection on what went wrong and how to fix that. Her boyfriend was a dick (of course she's going to say this post breakup) but she was wrong too and she needs to realize this and fix this on her own to be a better person. And if you liked her now, you would want her to be even better.

Let her do most of the contacting and talking, throw in some slight chatting but let her come to you. You have nothing to be worried about and shouldn't feel any pressure to rush things.

[Vroom_Screech]

Well its good to know Im doing most thing right. lol. She goes out of her way to get a hold of me pretty often. And She does want to do things. Like were gonna go to a movie and stuff. Just good to know Im not a complete idiot.