Hi all.
I didn't know where to post this because this is an odd relationship/story to begin with.
I dated this girl for a very short time, two years ago. She was a single mom and just got out of a terrible relationship with the child's father. I met her through my work in the summer and we began dating three months later (after she broke up with the child's dad). Our relationship was short but it was very intimate and because it ended so abruptly, it made it very awkward at work for awhile. We actually didn't talk to each other for a long time but for whatever reason, neither of us decided to find different jobs.
Fast forward a year from that time, different co-workers mended what was broken and we tolerated each other as "friends" (using the term loosely). We didn't hang out outside of work or talk to each other on the phone. We really only made small talk and that was it. I would say it has grown more the last six months to present time. If we take a break at the same time, we will have a full fledged conversation. Here is my point of why I'm posting here today.
Currently, she is engaged to this guy. I have no intentions of getting back together or wanting to (I say this honestly/anonymously) but I have this weird gut feeling she actually likes me. By the way, I'm not a cocky person...so coming to this possible realization was hard to accept.
But she looks at me a lot (I see in the corner of me eye or turn around and see her doing so), she asks me questions about if I'm seeing anyone, she got a little jealous when a different co-worker was interested in me, what I mentioned earlier about full-fledged conversations are usually initiated by her, etc...
Despite reading online about "if a woman is interested in me", I sometimes get confused about if the signs are nothing more than mere coincidence. I help a lot of different women out at my work (customers) and every once in awhile, I'll see one parting her hair, touching her lips, etc...but I don't want to get full of myself and imagine they're all interested in me.
I'm sorry this is so long-winded, just looking for multiple outside perspectives is all.
-Todd from Pennsylvania