Advice please ? :(

[Khazard]

Ok, so theres this girl. And she just recently started hanging around in our group of friends kind of thing, and she started like getting intimate with one of the guys who is also kind of my friend. I think she's a really nice, and attractive girl.

Anyway, so we were at this party. She was all over my friend all night and yet we having moments of flirtation where she'd like, try and hold my hand and things like that.

So, then i was talking to one of my female friends who was there (who is very good friends with her) and she was saying about how she thought that she was interested in me, as she had mentioned a couple of things a few days ago to her, but claims that my other male friend may have just got in there first.

Later on, the partys ending. And she's leaving, with him. He goes outside gets in his car. And when shes just leaving the house, and i ask her if i could have a kiss. Which she gives me, but when i try and prolong it she states that "I cant be doing this then getting in that car with him" and leaves.

I see her the next day but act like nothing happened.

So the next day, im on facebook. And i have a inbox message from her... and well, this is how the conversation went:

Her: hello.

Me: howdy.

Her: erm, (Name blocked) told me about the conversation you two had at the party on saturday. i thought you should know, that i know. is all

Me: Ah, and why did you want me to know that?

Her: i just thought you should know, that i know. i actually probably shouldnt have said anything, i felt well arkward though, when i saw you yesterday, because i wasnt sure if you knew that i knew. i think im just thinking about this too much tbh ahahaha just forget i said anything (:


Wtf is going on? I actually do like this girl...

[IncognitoSir]

Its pretty clear she's toying with you. She kissed you and jumped in the car with another guy. She's playing the field between you and your buddy. Personally I would of been done after the after party kiss and departure to go be with another guy. she was totally playing with you via fb, she jus want you to know that she realizes you like her.....wtf is that man? Dont be her play thing bro. If you like her, you need to clear things up and get some answers from her. She seems to be rather elusive and misleading if you ask me though.

[Khazard]

I don't know, i text her basically saying that i all i said was that i thought she was a good looking girl and said that it was different now however as my male friend is in the picture.

she then stated she was confused as before she left that night i asked her for a kiss to which she gave me, but then stated she was confused when i "tried to go for more" i apologised and said that i had been drinking alot that day, she said "it was alright, i can handle it" i then asked if she didn't want me to do that, she said that she "i cant really say, its just that me and (name removed) sort of have a thing going on. and i was just getting in his car just after it happened, so i was just shocked i think" i said then that it cant be that serious you've only known him a week and she said "no, im not saying we are serious. im just saying something is going on."

What do you think she thinks of me?

[Khazard]

I ask for anyones opinion on this, please. let me hear it i just want to know what the situation seems to be and your thoughts.

[girl68]

My thoughts: selfish bitch.

She's playing the other guy BIG TIME. Now she's trying to get you to say something about your feelings... for her. She told you she knows because she wants you to make a move on her. You know what? If you do remember this: she will play you just like she played your friend. She's young, wants all the attention she can get, and wants to play/ mess around with anyone who will bite. You and her friend both bit the same hook.

[IncognitoSir]

Why would she KISS you, and then run to another guy that she already has something going on with? This doesnt seem to really bother you much at all and that confuses me in itself. Like girl68 said, she is pretty selfish, but you're feeding into her selfish ways nonetheless.