Hitting a person

[SirWagginston]

I punched a girl in the face once.

I was around 5, though. She pinned me against a wall and kicked me in the balls several times, with no intention of stopping. I guess I draw the line there.

[Illusional]

haha... how many of my exs did i unintentionally hit?? a few of them...

raverboy

[SirWagginston]

Actually, wait. I elbowed one of my ex-girlfriends in the face accidentally while trying to put my arm around her. She thought it was funny, though.

Also, if you count headlocks, I headlocked one of my exes by mistake, as well. We were sleeping--she had her head on my chest, and I had my arm around her on her shoulder--when I had a dream that I was fighting with my roommate, and I put him in a headlock. Apparently I headlocked my ex in real life, and we both woke up: her screaming in shock, and me from hearing her scream.

Maybe this is why I'm single.

[Coco]

He should slap her ass back. Then maybe she will get enough of hitting him.

[Indignant]

She should leave him plain and simple. Hitting him is not the answer, it solves nothing. He's still gonna go out there and do what he's doing and he always will. The best way she can hurt him is to leave him.

that would be ideal of course, however it's hard for a young female to afford 3 little kids.

[doppelgaenger]

I agree with Coco. When your woman misbehaves, you have to spank her.

[Illusional]

or slap them in the face in public. then they'll realize their place in the relationship.

raverboy

[HappyToBeMe]

Aw hell no. If a guy ever put his hands on me, I would shank his ass.

[Cbrider]

Some women deserve to be cold clock'd.

You know who they are and that I don't believe in hitting women, but every rule has an exception.

Hitting may be childish, but its also a primal way get your point across. I still think that when a kid teases a bigger kid in school and gets decked for it, the system fails by punishing the bigger kid and incidentally, the one who DIDN'T instigate. Natural consequences have a place in this world and work remarkably well.

[Aeradalia]

So many people don't practice the idea of "look before you leap."

Is he faithful?

No.

Is an unfaithful man a good candidate for fatherhood?

No.

Should I have children with him?

No.

Should I have three children with him?

No.

Should I hit him because the choices I made in life frustrate me to the point of immaturity?

No.


See how easy that is? You look, you judge the distance, and if it's too far... you don't leap.

This "woman" isn't a real woman... she's just a kid with a bunch of babies. When she starts to woman-up... then she will have learned what it means to be a woman. One of the main lessons of womanhood is making tough choices for the best possible outcome... like toughing it out as a single mom for a while to remove kids from a damaging cycle.

[Illusional]

Aw hell no. If a guy ever put his hands on me, I would shank his ass.

wow, you and i would have the perfect brawling relationship then ah?

raverboy

[Coco]

The right man can put his hands on me anytime he likes. As long as if they are in the right places. He just can't spank me too hard and he better not HIT ME.

[Illusional]

that's half the fun though... red marks are a sign of affection.

raverboy

[Coco]

rofl! lol i don't like the red marks though! unless its on the thighs or on the butt

[Illusional]

see, so with that in mind, what's wrong with spanking, slapping, or hitting?? even hickies on the ass are signs of affection.

raverboy