Is this a bit of a crappy way to treat a woman or am I being over sensitive?

[Clio]

I have a new boyfriend who keeps talking about other women he's slept with who had a 'perfect' face or boobs. It is annoying me because I think he must be doing it to make me feel bad.

To clarify, I do not feel bad about my looks. I know I am very attractive and always have a lot of men chasing me - not trying to sound big headed but just trying to say that I don't feel bad about my own looks so I don't think I'm projecting, here. I don't mind at all if boyfriends I have watch porn or openly talk about a woman's good looks.

But I think for this person to start talking about some other woman's breasts just after he's had sex with me is a plan designed to make me feel bad which only he knows the reason for. He has done this a number of times now and always after we have had sex. I think I am upset, not because I think other women are a threat to me but because he must WANT to hurt me for some reason. By the way, the man in question is very socially aware so I do not think it's a case of insensitivity.

So am I being over sensitive and if not what could be the reason for his behaviour?

[girl68]

You're not overly sensitive you sound very rational.

Have you tried talking to him about it? Don't we say that one shouldn't compare the current partners to past ones? And if you do, you definately don't tell your current partner. And if you do (for some god forsaken crazy ass reason) you certainly don't tell the current partner after you're just sexed them up.

He's a douche 3 times over. I'd get the douche back by mentioning "my ex's perfectly slightly curved to perfection cock that hit you in just the right place to send you to the moon in 10 seconds flat. Wow, the girth of that cock was spectacular sigh... but you're good too honey."

[sAsAk1]

You're not overly sensitive you sound very rational.

Have you tried talking to him about it? Don't we say that one shouldn't compare the current partners to past ones? And if you do, you definately don't tell your current partner. And if you do (for some god forsaken crazy ass reason) you certainly don't tell the current partner after you're just sexed them up.

He's a douche 3 times over. I'd get the douche back by mentioning "my ex's perfectly slightly curved to perfection cock that hit you in just the right place to send you to the moon in 10 seconds flat. Wow, the girth of that cock was spectacular sigh... but you're good too honey."

Your post made me laugh! I'll send you flowers (OP) if you dare to say that to him after sex oh I so wanna hear his reaction XD

yeah he's being a total jerk saying that.

You should tell him to cut it out and ask him whether he's TRYING to hurt you or something else >.<

[sookie6]

You're not overly sensitive you sound very rational.

Have you tried talking to him about it? Don't we say that one shouldn't compare the current partners to past ones? And if you do, you definately don't tell your current partner. And if you do (for some god forsaken crazy ass reason) you certainly don't tell the current partner after you're just sexed them up.

He's a douche 3 times over. I'd get the douche back by mentioning "my ex's perfectly slightly curved to perfection cock that hit you in just the right place to send you to the moon in 10 seconds flat. Wow, the girth of that cock was spectacular sigh... but you're good too honey."

That is spot-on advice Girl68!

[QueenofCorona]

Yuck. That behavior is not cool. Maybe he's doing so to make himself seem like more of a "stud" and in reality he has never gotten any women like that. That or he really is just a douchebag. Either way, its sex rules 101 to NOT bring up other women you've bedded much less when you are in bed with your current gf. Talk to him about it, if he can't change it then move right along. NO woman should have to nor will put up with that business. If he can't change he'll be a lonely old man with only his memories of mammaries from days past.

[Gigabitch]

For a guy with such experience with perfection, he sure doesn't know shit about women.

[Lite]

I think you just need to tell him, "If they were really so perfect let me do you a favor and break up with you so that you can go back to them and tell them how perfect their tits are."