How can I meet this girl

[hayden]

I went to this basketball game tonight and I noticed one of the girls on the other team went to middle school with me last yr. We're in 9th now. Her name is Jordan she goes to a different school. After the girls game, the boys play, so in the hallway my friend on our school team hugged me as I told her good game. From the corner of my eye I could Jordan looking at me. Cause I walked by her to get to my friend. But before that we made eye contact for 1-2 secs while she was on the bench.

What do I do?

& I know it doesn't mean she likes me. I just wanna get to know her better but idk how because we don't go to the same school. I know she's bi because we went to middle school together but never talked.

Any advice/ideas?

[Wiredbomb0]

haha, well there is no way to find out unless you talk to her! I'd try and find another basketball game or something along those lines, and if you see her, just strike up a conversation with her. As simple as it sounds, that's basically it really. You could use the line "I remember you from middle school, how have you been?" to get things going.

Just to make this clear; when you say "I know she's bi", are you implying Bi-sexual or something (just want to get that cleared up )

[hayden]

Haha, yes, I mean Bi-sexual.

What if it becomes a "hi & bye" conversation?

I'm not very good at keeping a conversation going. =/

[Peter Pry]

Haha, yes, I mean Bi-sexual.

What if it becomes a "hi & bye" conversation?

I'm not very good at keeping a conversation going. =/

Keeping a conversation going is easy when you realize that people love to talk about themselves. Ask her about something romantic/sexual that she cares about and then sit back and enjoy the show. You can ask her, for instance, whether kissing boys or girls is more fun and why. Ask her about her ideal bf/gf and then demonstrate that you have the qualities she is looking for. She'll keep the conversation going herself if she feels you're remotely attractive, and will associate the good feelings of being able to openly talk about these things with you.

[QueenofCorona]

Can you add her as a friend on FB?

[hayden]

I don't think she has a FB or a myspace. But I'll ask..If she doesn't have one, should I ask for her # or is that too pushy?

[QueenofCorona]

I say go for it, ask her for her number. No guts, no glory.

[hayden]

I say go for it, ask her for her number. No guts, no glory.

That's true! If it doesn't work out at least I'll be able to say I tried and that's all you can really ask for.