so recently (last week) my gf left me. we had been dating for only 9 months. about 6 months in i ran into financial problems and she said i could stay with her for a while until i got back onto my feet. she lives in a small studio, so i moved all my stuff into a storage unit and took what things i needed with me. No, i didnt help with the rent. She said once i did get financially secure I should leave. In my luxury industry it goes up and with economy down, i had a hard time making ends meet. One night she texted me to go out w. her friends and i replied that i had to get work done in the morning for a showing that night and was not able to make it. I fell asleep and my phone died. As she got drunker she sent texts that went from you never want to hang out to you we should break up and give me my keys back. I woke up 4 hours later by her coming in a screaming at me. She eventually feel asleep. The next morning we didnt talk about it, probably cause I had my showing that night and she didnt want to spoil my parade. The next day I confronted her about it while we were in bed and she was like, ive been with you for 9 months and i feel like i should feel more for you. I wish i felt about you how you felt about me. So at that point we spent that day watching movies and laying in bed holding each other. the next day i started to pack up my stuff, but stayed there another night, where once again she came home drunk and we held each other and fell asleep. The next day I fully moved everything out and gave her a hug and left. She asked me if i would like to stay another night. I said no and that was the last time i spoke to her, well except she texted me thanks for moving her TV back into her room. i replied "No prob." and that was it. somewhere in the midst she ask if i still wanted her to come to a chinese new years event on sunday (tomorrow, which is also valentines). I'm debating if i should say yes or no. I'd love to see her, but fear for my heart to start hurting again. I'm hoping that with some space we can work it out, but also fear rejection, which will land me at point one again.
I havent been eating, nor sleeping. I've been popping RX pills from friends left and right to ease the anxiety and panic. Also, right now she lives 2 major streets from where I am staying, I am avoiding that street at all cost.
Advice please? I havent been this bent out of shape ever over a girl. Well, once 7 yrs ago, and I ran across the country to escape her and just cut it off cause I knew there was no chances of "us" again. With this one i feel like theres a chance.
Thanks.
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