Hurt :(

[Emesis]

And as far as being defensive, I was pretty calm about the whole thing. I called you a jerk because you were acting like one. The "black woman" comment was crossing a line and I didn't appreciate it very much.

How was that crossing the line? Would it have made a difference if I said "a large white woman?"

[Emesis]

Anyway from the way things are now I think I'm going to pull away while I still have my dignity. I won't be making any effort anymore to talk to her. Must be easy considering she completley ignores me when the other dude is around.

That a boy! I'm proud of you =]

[ZiggyZ]

Yeah, I'm actually a little more tough then I expected. I thought it would hurt like hell, and yeah, I was sad for the hours that followed, after that it was just feelings of resentment but I'm already feeling better and better, and It's just two days after. I actually almost reached a point where I don't even want her a single bit anymore. I guess it's because of the fact that I saw how easy she was.

[LailaK]

How was that crossing the line? Would it have made a difference if I said "a large white woman?"

Maybe you shouldn't refer to anyone's race. It's unnecessary and makes you sound stupid and bigoted. I'm going to assume you didn't know I was black. I don't think your racist it was just a stupid offensive thing to say.

[Theshyone]

Hope you feel better

[Emesis]

Maybe you shouldn't refer to anyone's race. It's unnecessary and makes you sound stupid and bigoted. I'm going to assume you didn't know I was black. I don't think your racist it was just a stupid offensive thing to say.

Mmm, no thanks. Racial jokes are hilarious. The only people who get offended are usually close-minded or insecure.

[girl68]

Wow, just wow.

[vashti]

Mmm, no thanks. Racial jokes are hilarious. The only people who get offended are usually close-minded or insecure.

I would swear you were nick if you had better writing skills.

[Emesis]

I would swear you were nick if you had better writing skills.

Why u has make fun of mah writing skeelz?

[LailaK]

Mmm, no thanks. Racial jokes are hilarious. The only people who get offended are usually close-minded or insecure.

Here's to hoping you grow up some day. I really should know better than to feed the trolls.

[HelloStephhy]

You shouldn't be on here ! You should stop wasting time and just tell her you like her.
Chances are she probably knows that you like her, but can't wait around forever for you to make a move.
Maybe if you tell her asap, you can save it, but tbh, it seems a little late !
Give it a shot though, and if not move on.
Looks like she was holding out for you to make a move.
But you didn't, so all you can do now is hope its not too late.
Hope it goes alright !
Stephhy x

[LoveHurts09]

You shouldn't be on here ! You should stop wasting time and just tell her you like her.
Chances are she probably knows that you like her, but can't wait around forever for you to make a move.
Maybe if you tell her asap, you can save it, but tbh, it seems a little late !
Give it a shot though, and if not move on.
Looks like she was holding out for you to make a move.
But you didn't, so all you can do now is hope its not too late.
Hope it goes alright !
Stephhy x

agreed, love hurts but only if ur unlucky... what do u have to lose from asking her out? ur not going to talk to her anyway... if u think its better to throw away a friendship cos ur scared or rejected then u arent really ready for a real relationship.

im trying to say, think about what happens if u tell her how u feel and she feels the same or what happens if u tell her how u feel and she doesnt.... are they worse then just ignoring her?

its never too late for love.

as for the other argument... emesis sounds like a little boy and lalik is clearly a normal girl, no1 wants to be treated like that no matter how u act, both sides need to show interest/effort or its not a relationship

[ZiggyZ]

Well, that may be true but in my case I guess I'm just a 100% too late. It looks like they really like eachother alot, almost to the point of bf and gf. I just blew it, I had my chance, and didn't act on it. Oh well lesson learned.

[LailaK]

Well, that may be true but in my case I guess I'm just a 100% too late. It looks like they really like eachother alot, almost to the point of bf and gf. I just blew it, I had my chance, and didn't act on it. Oh well lesson learned.

Next time don't eff it up.

[ZiggyZ]

Well, I just saw her yesterday, me and my friends are always playing cards then and she is there too, now with her new guy. Anyway I just kind of ignored her but it didn't really work. It just doesn't get the point across that I don't want anything to do with her anymore and she actually tried to start a conversation with me 4 or 5 times before giving up, and after that ended up sucking face again. I guess I'll just have to dissapear completely for a while now.