We're going to be celebrating out 3 year together at the end of this month. I have a great gift for him (for those who remember it is the boudoir photos which are sexy shots of me half naked). But I don't just want to do the gift. I want to make him the happiest man on earth. Well he claims he already is. I want to blow his mind (in bed).
So I usually do the dress up thing. But should I do lingerie? Something kinky? Role play? Bring out the whip (yes, literally- for him to use on me)? Dominatrix? Some sexy fishnets? A lace nightie?
Do men like romance? Is candles, wine, and a joint (hehe, yes we like to have an occasional smoke) be too corny?
I also have a chocolate body paint thing going on... nay? yay?
I could bring out some toys? Nothing too kinky just a basic vibrating cock ring, tasty lubes...
I could to a whole strip tease/ lap dance thing?
I know it varies for all men of course but I'm down for some thoughts and suggestions. Mostly from men themselves but if you ladies have a trick that worked- bring it!
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06-03-10, 03:55 AM #1
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For the men... what would blow your mind away?
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06-03-10, 04:05 AM #2
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Like you pointed out all guys are different....all of that sounds good to me really...except candles...I could care less about candles.
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06-03-10, 04:08 AM #3
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Just tell him you're his love slave for the night and you'll do anything he wants. Lay all the lingerie out on the bed and let him choose. Same with the sex toys, body chocolate, etc.
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06-03-10, 04:18 AM #4
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Hmmm Giga... that's a very different idea! I kinda like it!
I guess I like the idea of candles... Afterall I am a girl and it is my anniversary too. But I hear ya, you couldn't care less he probably wouldn't either.
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06-03-10, 04:19 AM #5
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My guy roommate is always saying how he thought it was so hot when he was still married once came home and his ex wife was wearing just an apron and heels and making his favorite dinner.
So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
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06-03-10, 04:25 AM #6
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Truly you can't go to wrong with anything you do if you pick something or multiple things off that list...or the apron idea...I mean really we are guys...what don't you get?
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06-03-10, 04:28 AM #7
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What do you mean what don't I get? I didn't ask that. I asked what makes you go nuts? What is super hot? And not all guys think everything is hot. Trust me I've been with a few who would hate everything on that list.
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06-03-10, 04:31 AM #8
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Well I guess I'm just easy going...or maybe just easy...
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06-03-10, 04:33 AM #9
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maybe easy. my last ex saw me in amazing lingerie and he said and I quote: "why the hell are you wearing something like that?" it was our 1 year anniversary, first ever partner/ relationship. What an idiot I think now. It is for you dipshit, I thought you'd like it fcuknut. Anyways out with the old, in with the hot, porno sex!
Yeah me!
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06-03-10, 04:38 AM #10
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I vote yes for hot porno sex.
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06-03-10, 04:58 AM #11
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Well he was just stupid...truly a woman can't go wrong with anything she does for me...I mean unless its something totally crazy like one woman I was with wanted to cut herself while I had sex with her and that was just to weird and self destructive for me...some pain is good during sex but ya shouldn't be bringing in knives...thats how accidents happen.
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Oh and yes the hot porno sex is good.
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Sexy accidents.
Keep your love life off Facebook, don't cheat, it's never too soon to make a move on a woman you like.
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06-03-10, 05:10 AM #13
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I'm freaky in bed but I'm not a freak. Cutting? Yikes...
Since I don't have an apron I probably won't do that... but certainly I will keep that in mind. I have many years as wifey to act that one out. So far Giga laid out my favorite suggestion.
But keep a posting!
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06-03-10, 05:50 AM #14
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I remember one night my girlfriend and I came home drunk. She ended up dancing in lingerie and high heels to music videos on TV, stopping periodically to blow me. Best night ever.
How about a whipped cream bikini? And then just being super dirty in the bedroom. Keep it simple though, all that stuff like vibrating cock rings, etc etc, it sounds a bit too complicated. Simple and slutty works best.Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
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06-03-10, 06:02 AM #15
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Thanks charlie, I'm not going to use every trick in the book. I see what you're saying.
I like the lap dance blow job combo, sounds hot! Might even tell him to shut the hell up while I cuff him
then do to him what I please!
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