I've been seeing a guy long distance for a year and a half. He's finally moving back in 3 weeks! Yay... however, his ex of 3 years lives here too, and she got custody of the dog when they broke up. He hasn't seen the dog in over a year, and I know upon his return he will want to see the dog/hang out with the dog, which in turn means hanging out with his ex, which just makes me ill.
My stance is that they should not be communicating, and that the dog is no longer his. For him to still have that "connection" with her, after they haven't seen each other for over a year, is not moving on with your life. It's holding on to the past and hindering the new relationship with me because I don't tolerate what he wants to do. Am I being selfish? Or is he not being understanding? Am I the ass for keeping the man from his dog? But is it his dog anymore?? HELP!