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    hard to get

    ive been texting the same girl for 6 weeks now and weve only met up a couple of times. she never makes herself available for me to meet up with her and its starting to frustrate me. i had to end up telling her how i felt about her in a text which i really didnt want to do. i spoke to her best friend last night and i asked her does she actually like me and she responded 'yes a lot.' so i know shes playing hard to get. my problem is that im planning to ask her out the next time i see her and i think she knows that aswell. so shes looking for excuses to not see me this weekend which further frustrated me because i want this aggrevation to finish sooner rather than later.

    what should i do?

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    Her best friend could just be helping her play you. If you keep asking her out and she is rejecting you, then there is no point in pursuing it further. Stop asking her out. If she is indeed playing hard to get and gets the message that you aren't going to make an ass out of youself and keep chasing her, she might eventually open up and stop playing hard to get so much. You already made it clear you want to go out with her and initiated the invitations. That is all you have to do. She is either going to meet you half way or not. She has to decide that herself.

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