First and foremost id like to thank everyone for replying to this post. Your thoughts and opinions are greatly appreciated. Perryville your opinion of me being insecure is very untrue and as far as i can can tell neither is she. We both are just very adventurous people and are very comfortable with each other. I couldnt see trying a lot of the stuff we do with other people. We are both very good at pleasing each other and thats always been one of our strong points. We dont always take things to the extreme and do enjoy what i guess could be called the standard. We just like to add a little excitement sometimes by trying new things.