Should I Call I Would He Think I'm Desperate?

[kind_heart]

Hi! How's Everyone Doing? Listen I Need some Advice.

So I have a crush on this guy who works at Starbucks. We used to go to high school together and had a class. I was a freshman and he was a senior at the time. So anyways I walk in there one day and he asks if I still remembered him and how I was doing since the last time we saw each other which was a little over a year ago, and we talked for about 10 mins. So over the last week or so we've I've gone back and he's working we usually talk for awhile. Then yesterday while me and a co-worker we're on our lunch break, we went over to Starbucks again. His shift had just ended and so, according to my friend he was talking to me the whole time. Later the 3 of us were joined by some more of our co-workers who noticed the same thing. Later, I found out that my friend John who also had a class with him back in high school told me that he said I'm someone to remember, and that he'd like to get to know me better. So anyways my crush (his name is Anthony) gave me his phone number. My friend Nina pointed out that I didn't give him mine, but he said to just call his cell phone and if he doesn't answer, just leave me my phone number on the voice mail.

[I BabyGirl I]

I don't know when you first started this thread off seems like your pushing it alittle but if it's ok with him HEY what more can ya say?.. If he don't mind it and everytime you come in and he talk's to you why not ... It's always good go for it!

[sfalexi]

If a guy hands you a phone number, and says, "call me", then call. SImple as that.

Rod steele

[abercromqt20]

agreed....... call he man!

[kind_heart]

Okay Sorry I haven't been on here in the last several days, but a few things have transpired. Okay so I didn't call him, but I left him a text message with my number (cowardly I know). The next time I stopped by Starbucks which happened on a Monday he said that he called my cell twice. Well, on Tuesday he stopped by my job and asked my co-worker if I was there, which I wasn't. But then he stopped by again on Wednesday, right when I started my shift at 5:30, keep in mind his shift had ended at 4:45 earlier that afternoon. We talked for about a few minutes, because he didn't want to get me in trouble with my boss who was standing about 10 ft. away. So he said he just stopped by to say Hi. And I'm not going to lie, after he left I couldn't wipe the smile from my face. Hopefully this will turn into something more, though I'm not going to rush anything. I'm enjoying these little convos thus far. Whaddya think?

[zas]

good good good =) the fact he came to your work twice is really great, shows he is interested. but wait for him to initiate the first date.
good luck =)

[BillyGalbreath]

agreed....... call he man!

haha ! he man. reminds me of that cartoon... oh, good times...

[sfalexi]

I agree, Billy. 80's cartoons rock.

[kanzaki]

just pick up the darn phone and dial the number

[Lessia]

go back for coffee, flirt, go home.
text him the following:
Hey, just thought I'd send you a text so you have my number too.
You should save it, it's an important one.
-(your name)

I know this sounds CHEEZ and maybe narcissistic. BUT i think youve talked to him enough that he'll know ur just joking.
plus, i did this to a guy once, who is now my boyfriend of over a year! Guys love the chase. Go girl!